We clearly missunderstand each other! A few examples do not make a majority or prove a point! I am happy for them all!
Schuyler Waynforth responded:
Absolutely, a few examples do not make a point. Those are anecdotes, or case studies. Unschooling has not been demonstrated as a method for teaching children that works scientifically. Unschooling, as it is advocated by this list, is not a method for teaching children, it is, as Joyce puts it so wonderfully at The Unschooling Philosophy :"The goal of unschooling is not education. It is to help a child be who she is and blossom into who she will become. Education happens as a side effect."So since unschooling is not something that exists with statistics and data to back it up, all that the evidence is anecdotal. Lists like this one are about sharing those anecdotes, explaining to others what has happened in the lives of unschooling children and families. Helping other people trust that learning happens all the time. If the only way unschooling can be a valid method within your life, not something that you believe to be purely coincidental in the lives of a lucky few, is if it has been or can be demonstrated statistically, than you may have to either wait a while since no one is trying to sell unschooling there isn't a lot to gain by demonstrating that it works or set up your own longitudinal study and wait the length of your study populations lives.
I've been unschooling since Simon was 3, he'll be 9 on Tuesday, so 6 years now. If I'd decided to wait until a respected research body verified what people on lists like this are sharing from their own lives, Simon and Linnaea would be in school and our lives wouldn't be filled with the learning that happens just being us. And it will never be verified, because it is something that takes a single-mindedness of purpose that I would never have thought I was capable of. Which means that it isn't something that everyone can do. Not because they aren't necessarily capable of it, although that may be the case for some, but because they don't have as their goal "to help a child be who she is and blossom into who she will become."
(and her children are still unschooled in 2015)
What proof do you have that it is working? How would you suggest parents reassure themselves that this path is providing everything their children need?Well starting at the end, there is no path that will provide everything for a child. There are some [paths] that don't even begin to intend to provide everything their children need. Maybe first parents should consider what it is they think their children really need.
As to proof of whether unschooling is working, if the question is whether kids are learning, parents can tell when they're learning because they're there with them. How did you know when your child could ride a bike? You were able to let go, quit running, and watch him ride away. You know they can tell time when they tell you what time it is. You know they're learning to read when you spell something out to your husband and the kid speaks the secret word right in front of the younger siblings. In real-life practical ways children begin to use what they're learning, and as they're not off at school, the parents see the evidence of their learning constantly.
Holly was six when the response above was written, and nineteen years old when she took the photo.
As you say, the proof is in the living! The rightness, the evidence, the closeness, the joy, those are all found in this life. —Schuyler Waynforth [Slowly amazing]
Unschooling can prove itself if it's not thwarted. —Sandra Dodd [Unschooling can prove itself]
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