Sugar causes hyperactivity.
False, but repeated OFTEN in sitcoms and comedies, and by moms who want to limit and shame their kids.
Why aren't my kids hyper after binging on sugar? 2013 article about a review of 12 studies showing sugar doesn't make kids hyper, but that moms WANT it to be true.
Children can Spoil
That's not exactly the way they word it, but the idea of "spoiled" children is interesting and dangerous.
Children who can't read by the time they're eight will never catch up.
Schools operate to make that true, but in the real world (where so many children unfortunately are prevented from being), it's not a bit true.
This quote came from a discussion on MySpace and was sent to me by one of the participants (not by the author). People do believe these things, though, and it's just not so.
With dyslexia you HAVE to be trained in how to get past it. this isnt just some person that could read at some point. if he isnt trained HOW to see letters in groups that form words he never will be able to do it and it will ALWAYS be frustrating for him. since neither of you are very aware of dyslexia I am going to tell you that some of the unschooling pracitces just do not apply to dyslexics. the whole concept of not insisting they do things doesnt work. people with dyslexia are forced to do these types of eye and mind training so that at some point things suddenly get easier for them.
If my son had his way he would play video games all day long.
Unschooling parents who have spent years giving their children freedom and choices have learned that limitations create need while freedom creates intelligent choices. There are other "if I let him" assurances here.
If children or teens aren't made to write reports, they'll never be able to write.
Here are some things to read about real people and real writing:
SandraDodd.com/writing and there are links to several other pages and reports too (and by "report" I mean real people providing real information for real reasons).
If children are allowed sleep as late as they want, they'll never be able to get up and go to work.
SandraDodd.com/sleeping has a fair amount of information, but I have three children (at this writing 16, 19 and 21), all of whom have had jobs, none of whom has failed to learn to use an alarm clock and good judgment, none of whom has ever been let go from a job, all of whom have been free to sleep or get up for 16 years or more (depending). If there were no other refutation of the myth above than this, it would be sufficient.
It's also worth noting that none of those jobs have been "regular hours." Shifts have started as early as 6:30 a.m. and ended as late as 3:00 a.m. Good thing they were well prepared by years of irregular sleep!
Children have to be taught to self-regulate.
Wait a half hour before swimming
Snopes gently debunks the whole deal, but who needs Snopes? It never made sense. What DID seem apparent to me when I was a kid, and is confirmed by my experiences as a parent hanging out with other parents, is that adults take longer to eat than kids, and the adults want to lounge around and eat and then smoke (especially in the 50's and 60's when the warning was so widespread) and they did NOT want to heave themselves up off their butts to go and play with the kids, or even to watch the kids. So they made up a deadly boogey-man to make the kids stay out of the water until the adults could take their leisurely conversational long lunch (often followed by cigarettes and liquor).
I categorize it with good chocolate is bad for little kids and coffee will stunt your growth. The best way not to share something expensive with kids is to tell them it's bad for them. There's a long tradition of lying to children, for the convenience of adults.
Going outside with wet hair will make you catch a cold.
Molly Orendorff sent this one. She wrote: