avgjean

Hey all
I have some thoughts running around here, and would like some
feedback. I hope it doesn't sound too much like babble.

I live across the street from a school. Today, I was listening to
the happy sounds of kids playing, and then a loud bell went off, and
all the happy sounds drifted away. I don't know why, but that makes
me so nuts! I try to explain to my little ones why I don't want
them to go to school, but I have such a hard time doing it without
being negative about school, rather than telling them all the
positive reasons I have for keeping them here.

Am I brainwashing them with my comments like "Oh look at those poor
kids cooped up in school all day!" or "Isn't it bizarre when those
kids march around in lines?" Some days it just seems harmless
enough (although it can make for awkward conversations with schooled
friends, ha ha). Today, though, I am wondering about it. I don't
know, maybe those horrible bells going off all day are making me
crazy!

Jean

Nancy Wooton

on 9/30/02 2:34 PM, avgjean at avgjean@... wrote:

> Am I brainwashing them with my comments like "Oh look at those poor
> kids cooped up in school all day!" or "Isn't it bizarre when those
> kids march around in lines?" Some days it just seems harmless
> enough (although it can make for awkward conversations with schooled
> friends, ha ha). Today, though, I am wondering about it.

If your kids are really young (Kindergarten, first, maybe second grade)
their agemates will still enjoy school. If they are older, it may be the
public school kids themselves who convince yours how good homeschooling is.
I've heard more than one "You are SO lucky!" directed my kids' way <g>

Nancy

Pam Hartley

> Am I brainwashing them with my comments like "Oh look at those poor
> kids cooped up in school all day!" or "Isn't it bizarre when those
> kids march around in lines?" Some days it just seems harmless
> enough (although it can make for awkward conversations with schooled
> friends, ha ha). Today, though, I am wondering about it.


If your kids are asking about going to school, I think it's fair to give
them the facts of what goes on there (you sort of have to, as they have
Barney and those of their friends who don't yet hate school and possibly
your relatives or others praising it).

When Brit was asking about school a couple of years ago, I told her, "You'd
need to go to bed much earlier than you do and get up much earlier than you
do. You'd have to do what the teacher told you to do every day, for hours,
instead of deciding what you wanted to do for yourself. You'd have to ask if
you wanted to go to the bathroom, and they might make you wait. You'd have
to wait to eat at a certain time when they told you to, not when you wanted
to." Etc.

Pam

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In a message dated 9/30/02 3:37:45 PM, avgjean@... writes:

<< Am I brainwashing them with my comments like "Oh look at those poor
kids cooped up in school all day!" or "Isn't it bizarre when those
kids march around in lines?" >>

Well, I remember people telling me "Look! They're going in to have fun, to
sing songs, and to color!"

That's brainwashing.

"Don't you want to go to school and learn to read and to make a lot of
friends?"

I really did like school, but I always knew I was in the minority.

Sandra

Joylyn

janene, age 4, wants to go to school.

she wants to have recess, to sing songs and paint.

if i had a job now, i might find her a nice preschool, but
unfortunately, without a job, it's not really possible. not sure what
my other choices are.

joylyn

SandraDodd@... wrote:

>
> In a message dated 9/30/02 3:37:45 PM, avgjean@... writes:
>
> << Am I brainwashing them with my comments like "Oh look at those poor
> kids cooped up in school all day!" or "Isn't it bizarre when those
> kids march around in lines?" >>
>
> Well, I remember people telling me "Look! They're going in to have
> fun, to
> sing songs, and to color!"
>
> That's brainwashing.
>
> "Don't you want to go to school and learn to read and to make a lot of
> friends?"
>
> I really did like school, but I always knew I was in the minority.
>
> Sandra
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Betsy

**she wants to have recess, to sing songs and paint. **

A music or art class might be a lot cheaper than hours and hours of
preschool. Or what about having a little co-op with people you know
just to paint and sing and have outside play (which you can call recess
for the thrill of it).

My friend who teaches music gives free (group) lessons to the kids of
the mom who watches her toddler during classes.

Betsy

avgjean

--- In AlwaysLearning@y..., Joylyn <joylyn@e...> wrote:
> janene, age 4, wants to go to school.
>
> she wants to have recess, to sing songs and paint.
>
My daughter wanted to go to school when all her friends started
going off to preschool and kindergarten. That's when I started
going to the local homeschool park days and to periodically sign her
up for community classes like art or gymnastics. Having other
homeschoolers around is the best thing for that, but we still see
her schooled friends, too. School is more of a curiosity now,
thanks, in part, to all my "horror" stories about having to sit at a
desk for hours, do boring worksheets instead of reading good books,
etc.
School to us is like daycare..it is there for people who need it,
but we don't need it. Still, I would like to be more quick to give
an answer to "why homeschool?" that is more positive than "because
we hate all that school represents." Does that make sense?
Jean

Joylyn

that's a good idea.

joylyn

Betsy wrote:

> **she wants to have recess, to sing songs and paint. **
>
> A music or art class might be a lot cheaper than hours and hours of
> preschool. Or what about having a little co-op with people you know
> just to paint and sing and have outside play (which you can call recess
> for the thrill of it).
>
> My friend who teaches music gives free (group) lessons to the kids of
> the mom who watches her toddler during classes.
>
> Betsy
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Joylyn

well, janene's been going to homeschool days for two years, so that's
not the problem. i think an art's or music class with other kids her
age would help her. i'll do that.

joylyn

avgjean wrote:

> --- In AlwaysLearning@y..., Joylyn <joylyn@e...> wrote:
> > janene, age 4, wants to go to school.
> >
> > she wants to have recess, to sing songs and paint.
> >
> My daughter wanted to go to school when all her friends started
> going off to preschool and kindergarten. That's when I started
> going to the local homeschool park days and to periodically sign her
> up for community classes like art or gymnastics. Having other
> homeschoolers around is the best thing for that, but we still see
> her schooled friends, too. School is more of a curiosity now,
> thanks, in part, to all my "horror" stories about having to sit at a
> desk for hours, do boring worksheets instead of reading good books,
> etc.
> School to us is like daycare..it is there for people who need it,
> but we don't need it. Still, I would like to be more quick to give
> an answer to "why homeschool?" that is more positive than "because
> we hate all that school represents." Does that make sense?
> Jean
>
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Tia Leschke

>
> she wants to have recess, to sing songs and paint.
>
> if i had a job now, i might find her a nice preschool, but
> unfortunately, without a job, it's not really possible. not sure what
> my other choices are.

Have recess, sing songs, and paint.
<g>
Tia

Janet Hamlin

When we're out early in the mornings we see tons of kids (elementary age
mostly) out waiting for the bus. NONE of these kids look happy or excited
about going to school. The other weird thing is that when we pass a school,
the buses are parked right out in front, kids trapped inside. NO ONE is
playing on the playground (which, btw, is a really nice big brand new one
they just put in when they expanded the school). What the heck is up with
that?

My dd (age 8) thought the Baldo cartoon from a few weeks ago was funny. Now
when we pass schools,
she calls out, "Processing plant!"

Janet

mary krzyzanowski

My children's school age friends (ranging in ages from 5 to 12) have all
asked their parents if they could be homeschooled too. In the immediate
area of my house (5 minute walk) there are 6 homeschooled kids
(unschooled-4-that would be us and a friend; curriculum hsed-2), 6 public
schooled kids and 4 who aren't old enough.
Mary-NY


>From: Nancy Wooton <ikonstitcher@...>
>Reply-To: [email protected]
>To: <[email protected]>
>Subject: Re: [AlwaysLearning] anti-schooling
>Date: Mon, 30 Sep 2002 14:43:34 -0700
>
>on 9/30/02 2:34 PM, avgjean at avgjean@... wrote:
>
> > Am I brainwashing them with my comments like "Oh look at those poor
> > kids cooped up in school all day!" or "Isn't it bizarre when those
> > kids march around in lines?" Some days it just seems harmless
> > enough (although it can make for awkward conversations with schooled
> > friends, ha ha). Today, though, I am wondering about it.
>
>If your kids are really young (Kindergarten, first, maybe second grade)
>their agemates will still enjoy school. If they are older, it may be the
>public school kids themselves who convince yours how good homeschooling is.
>I've heard more than one "You are SO lucky!" directed my kids' way <g>
>
>Nancy
>




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Dawn Falbe

Here's something I was thinking about the other day. Have you ever
noticed that on Magic School Bus all of the adventures take place
outside of the school!! I've always thought that was ironic.

Dawn F
Tucson

C. G. Bratton

I never even thought of that! And the Frizz doesn't follow traditional
teaching protocol.
Catherine
Davis, CA

Dawn Falbe wrote:

>
>
> Here's something I was thinking about the other day. Have you ever
> noticed that on Magic School Bus all of the adventures take place
> outside of the school!! I've always thought that was ironic.
>
> Dawn F
> Tucson
>
>
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In a message dated 10/1/2002 5:15:00 PM Eastern Standard Time,
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> Have you ever
> noticed that on Magic School Bus all of the adventures take place
> outside of the school!!

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on the magic bus, but he seems to understand that it's just fiction.
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mary krzyzanowski

Did you also notice that the class on Magic School Bus has only about 8
kids? Mr. Ratburn's class (Arthur) has only 12 (I think), definitely not
what you'd find in a typical class.
Mary-NY


>From: "Dawn Falbe" <astrologerdawn@...>
>Reply-To: [email protected]
>To: <[email protected]>
>Subject: [AlwaysLearning] anti-schooling
>Date: Tue, 1 Oct 2002 14:12:11 -0700
>
>
>
>Here's something I was thinking about the other day. Have you ever
>noticed that on Magic School Bus all of the adventures take place
>outside of the school!! I've always thought that was ironic.
>
>Dawn F
>Tucson
>
>


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In a message dated 10/1/2002 11:45:50 PM Eastern Standard Time,
[email protected] writes:


> Here's something I was thinking about the other day. Have you ever
> noticed that on Magic School Bus all of the adventures take place
> outside of the school!! I've always thought that was ironic.
>
>

Take chances.
Make mistakes.
Get messy.

Don't you wish all the kids that had to go to school had a teacher like this?


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