Joylyn

Dawn, how is Max today? what did the burn
unit say?

Joylyn

Dawn Falbe wrote:

> I agree about the toxic parents
> Jessica.... I wrote this afternoon about
> the
> wonderful time I had with Zak making
> chocolate covered strawberries... Then
> Max got up and we were still making them.
> He wanted to help. I kept him
> away from the stove and made sure it was
> off and I turned away for 5 seconds
> and Max (2,5 yrs) put his hand on the
> burner.... Hubby walked in from work 3
> mins later and we ended up at the
> hospital. He has 2nd degree burns on his
> right hand, possibly 3rd, we are taking
> him to the burn unit tomorrow
> morning at 7am, the first time they can see
> him.
>
> So what does this have to do with toxic
> in-laws and mothers? I called my
> mother and asked her if she would watch Zak
> in the morning so that hubby and
> I can go together and she'd been drinking
> (again)... She started saying all
> kinds of strange things such as "You need
> to be careful THEY don't take your
> children away"... "Whose they?" was my
> response.... She started going on
> about CPS, Welfare, they were only
> intersted in the kids and could think I'd
> burned him deliberately.... Of course this
> was just the joyful news I needed
> to hear when I was already having a hard
> time with the fact that he was with
> me when he got burned. She even asked me
> "where were you".... I didn't need
> to justify myself but out of habit did (I
> thought that one had gone by the
> wayside)... I turned to put a plate in the
> sink and in 5 seconds his hand
> was on the stove...
>
> My parents not only don't support
> homeschooling, they have no clue was
> unschooling is and don't want to learn
> anything, read anything or know
> anything about it. They are unsupportive
> in the decisions we make for our
> children. I guess I'd just been sucked in
> lately to my mother being nice.
> I forget she's like the Black Widow Spider
> who will do anything to get you
> into her net and then strike.
>
> As you can imagine I'm feeling a bit
> overwhelmed tonight and your thoughts
> and prayers for a swift recovery of my
> adorable Max would be appreciated.
>
> Dawn
> btw, we're in the same boat with the toxic
> inlaws, too. in fact, their
>
> extremely negative (verbal, in front of our
> child) response to our choice to
> opt
>
> for "this homeschooling bulls**t" (the last
> in a string of negative
> responses to
>
> just about every parenting choice we've
> made) has caused us to pretty much
> cut
>
> off contact. Jessica Kelly
>
>
>
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Joylyn
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Sharon Rudd

I called my
> > mother and asked her if she would watch Zak
> > in the morning so that hubby and
> > I can go together and she'd been drinking
> > (again)...
.................................
a string of negative
> > responses to
> >
> > just about every parenting choice we've
> > made) has caused us to pretty much
> > cut off contact.
.................................
That's about all you can do! Remove yourself and
children from any toxic effects! Grandma or
who(what)ever!! And don't trust drunks to care for
your children, even in emeregancies. It is OK to love
the toxic %$#$#*^%!!, just don't trust them with your
children.

Sharon of the Swamp








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