halfshadow1

Ron(my dh) is always complaining about Lukas' toys lying around. BUT,
there is NO space here!! He says he has too many but if he had a
normal room they wouldn't take up but a corner in it!
When I clean up Ron likes it but ya know it doesn't last. I am always
trying to think of solutions but come up emptyhanded.(619' house) I
would like to have a big playroom outside,maybe a tent for his toys.
That would be good for the fall and winter. Maybe,too hot in the summer.
I feel Ron is also hating on Lukas a lot. For example, when he tells
Lukas to do something and he doesn't listen or"obey" him. Ron says he
needs a whipping.
No matter how it made him feel growing up with whippings or the info I
have provided about it. Lukas never has one and will not as long as
I'm here.I tell Ron that when I want to get Lukas in I say: Hey,
Sweetheart,let's go in so I can eat or whatever and we can go back out
in awhile okay? Lukas mostly agrees and comes with me. Ron barks
orders at him then gets mad because he doesn't listen! Ron wants Lukas
to understand he is the authority figure. I tell him when I respect
Lukas he does me. But Ron won't try it...argh!! What to do????
sorry,if my problems seem redudant. Dh also says Lukas shouldn't be
eating sugar,it makes him hyper. Lukas is always in his way or will
not listen. Lukas is 6yo.
I want to add that we don't have "normal bedrooms,you walk from the
living room into Lukas and my bedroom and you have to go thru that to
get to the kitchen/bathroom. there is a small bedroom that Ron sleeps in.
We can not sell yet. The home is owner finiaced,in little more then
two years we have it paid off. I did cross post this.