Ren Allen

"I'm having a pity party, the rest of the house CAN be miserable. I
think it's the "reason" for mama not being happy that you have to
examine."

And that's how I take the saying. If mama's happy, it's
contagious...if mama's miserable that is also contagious. Makes me
more aware of how I act/think/respond. I think it's a true saying, but
not an excuse to be selfish and create a feeling of your children
owing you.

I KNOW *I* am responsible to get what I need, so I can be truly there
for everyone else. When I'm happy/content/at peace with my world, I
can be such a better Mum regardless of circumstance. I alone am
responsible for getting what I need and creating that space.

Ren
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