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In a message dated 8/3/2003 5:27:13 PM Mountain Daylight Time,
ecsamhill@... writes:

> **Would you rather people just do this sort of thing and learn the hard
> way that they can have their kids taken? For crying out loud, I am not
> in FAVOR
> of the child welfare Nazis! It sounds like you are in favor of killing the
> bearer of bad news.**
>


-=-The sky is not falling because of something that was done ten years
ago.-=-

True. And the story wasn't about me riskig my kids. That was Quite off the
wall, wasn't it?

Police had been to that house twice before (that I know of) for domestic
violence. It was a rental house; we owned. their other three neighbors were
widows who had been in those houses for a really long time, and their peace was
being disturbed by a macho dork. If anyone stood to lose a child over child
welfare issues, it was this family with the cop car so often out front.

I could have just called the police, but they seemed clearly ot to be
tooconcerned about police visits.

After the day I went there, I never heard them have another fight, but I did
see a police car there once a few months later. I hope she called before the
yelling even got going. I was really angry that morning, and came back and
called Keith and asked him to come home and talk to the guy which he did, in a
calm guy-way, as they leaned on Keith's big pickup (from which the next year
the neighbor borrowed the spare so they could move <g>). I hope her little boy
grew up okay. He's 15 or 16 now.

Sandra





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In a message dated 8/3/2003 8:33:28 PM Eastern Standard Time,
SandraDodd@... writes:

> After the day I went there, I never heard them have another fight, but I
> did
> see a police car there once a few months later. I hope she called before
> the
> yelling even got going. I was really angry that morning, and came back and
> called Keith and asked him to come home and talk to the guy which he did, in
> a calm guy-way, as they leaned on Keith's big pickup (from which the next
> year the neighbor borrowed the spare so they could move <g>). I hope her
> little boy grew up okay. He's 15 or 16 now.
>
> Sandra

I understand. Since I live in the land of noisy, obnoxious drunken neighbors
right now, I also understand the frustration of not wanting to wait around
for the cops, but really, it's usually a wise policy! (Once in awhile a
neighbor will ask me to call the cops on someone so she's not the ONLY one calling,
and I try to oblige.)


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