Jenny Cyphers, April 2009:
The proof is in the living! I will keeping on living the life that I'm living, because I KNOW it works, I SEE it. I don't doubt it at all!see more at the bottom of SandraDodd.com/confidence
Jenny lives in Oregon with her husband John. They have two daughters (who at the time of this page's creation are 14 and 7 or so). In several places on the internet, Jenny describes beautifully some of the richest and sweetest of unschooling ideas, and shares how they play out in her life. This is a repository for some of her words and links to others. —Sandra Dodd
"I don’t live near Jenny. I wish I did. To have her wisdom wash over me in real life would totally rock! But I’m lucky—I get to read about her profound connection to her daughters almost every day. Jenny herself is a dancer, an artist, a writer, and an adventurer. I feel honored to know her." —Robin Bentley
"It's easy to get caught up in one's own self thought. If I let a day go by, or hours, in that mode, at the end of the day, I find myself thinking that I should've, would've, could've, and once again, I'm in that mode. To just go and be with my kids as soon as I recognize that mindset, I avoid all the guilty afterthoughts of what I should have done better. So, I not only avoid the guilt complex, I get to relive all the fun and wonderful moments that I intentionally sought after.
"It seems that unschooling, for me, is a compilation of all those moments of being with my kids instead of doing something else. It's fun to go out of your way to do cool things with your kids and seek out opportunities, but the real stuff seems to happen in those moments that could just go by within each and every day." **
"Intellectually, I got unschooling all the way from the very beginning. The part that took more time was relationships and wholeness." (More, upper right at that link.)
2014 family photo lifted from faceboook:
On saying "Yes," HERE to the left of the green box, not far down the page.
One of the kids that live near us, said rather astonished, "you don't have any rules do you?" I looked at him and said, "yes we do,
A kid could easily not break the rule of "no hitting" by pinching or kicking, and completely get away with it, and feel pretty darn good about getting away with being mean without getting in trouble. If the idea is to "be nice," pinching or kicking won't work.
From "How some now-adult unschooling parents learned to read"
"My parents read to us all the time. Not stupid kids books, but real books. So, when I went to school, I had no desire to read, didn't understand the alphabet really, and I hated the stories that we were forced to read because they were sooooo boring, but I loved it when others read to me and I loved words and had a pretty large vocabulary and loved to write letters.