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In a message dated 5/15/03 12:07:57 PM, litlrooh@... writes:

<< Does that mean we shouldn't *try*??? Does that mean we shouldn't just
help even one person? What about the handful of children that *do* have
better lives because someone did something? >>

I do that every single day of my life.
I help people unschool.
I help them realize where their negativity is harming their relationship with
their children.

So have you been doing, lately!

<<Surely there has to be a balance, even as imperfect as our results might
be.>>

Balance? Probably my husband thinks not.

Every single day. The only days I miss are when I'm at a conference doing it
in person, or when we're on a family outing and I'm away from the computer.

I pay for my website so it won't have ads, and so it will be easy to
remember, so people can get to it easily and without irritation. I just
got this note from someone I helped by e-mail today:

-=-Thank you for your speedy and incredibly helpful response!
You can't believe how much your message has helped me and at a time I need
it most. Thank you for the insights and websites. I look forward to
delving into them. I will try to attend the conference as well.
-=-

That's the HSC conference, where I won't be, but the mom is in northern
California.

I AM helping with peace in families.

I'm not doing it by stirring up a cloud of negativity, though. They're
moving already from negativity toward peace. It's just a little assist.

Sandra

Have A Nice Day!

I agree Sandra. I'm glad you clarified that though, because it almost sounded different than what you intended, and I couldn't believe that was really what you meant.

I'm doing my darndest to be a positive influence here. Its not always easy though, is it!

kristen
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In a message dated 5/15/03 12:07:57 PM, litlrooh@... writes:

<< Does that mean we shouldn't *try*??? Does that mean we shouldn't just
help even one person? What about the handful of children that *do* have
better lives because someone did something? >>

I do that every single day of my life.
I help people unschool.
I help them realize where their negativity is harming their relationship with
their children.

So have you been doing, lately!

<<Surely there has to be a balance, even as imperfect as our results might
be.>>

Balance? Probably my husband thinks not.

Every single day. The only days I miss are when I'm at a conference doing it
in person, or when we're on a family outing and I'm away from the computer.

I pay for my website so it won't have ads, and so it will be easy to
remember, so people can get to it easily and without irritation. I just
got this note from someone I helped by e-mail today:

-=-Thank you for your speedy and incredibly helpful response!
You can't believe how much your message has helped me and at a time I need
it most. Thank you for the insights and websites. I look forward to
delving into them. I will try to attend the conference as well.
-=-

That's the HSC conference, where I won't be, but the mom is in northern
California.

I AM helping with peace in families.

I'm not doing it by stirring up a cloud of negativity, though. They're
moving already from negativity toward peace. It's just a little assist.

Sandra

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In a message dated 5/15/03 4:25:03 PM, litlrooh@... writes:

<< I'm doing my darndest to be a positive influence here. Its not always
easy though, is it! >>

There are calms and storms, and we can no more prevent them than we can
prevent rain or snow.

Sandra