zenmomma *

>>However, I do think it is helpful, in this world of words typed on a
>>screen, to use words such as "special needs", because otherwise we would
>>have to type out some lengthy description/disclaimer each time.>>

That's how I've always approached it too. But these last few days have made
me re-evaluate that thought. When I use the old special needs tag I'm
thinking of kids with behaviors. Those who are extreme or quirky or
sensitive. The kinds who would indeed receive those nebulous alphabet soup
labels in school. What I wan't considering were those dear kids who have
absolute physical needs that are so different. Kids with seizures or down
syndrome or FAS.

I still believe in my absolute truth that trusting and understanding these
kids is the path to take. I believe that schools and regimentation and
absolutes are harmful to any being's psyche. But I wonder if I should know
more about these kids physical limitations before I answer so quickly.

Then again, I think *my* truth can be shared and fit into each child's
puzzle of a world and used however it will fit.

Okay, now I'm rambling. ;-) Just thinking out loud.


>>I do have faith that what I am doing is the right way to help my kids each
>>keep and explore their own unique way of being in this world, but it still
>>helps to hear from the other end of the age spectrum that yes, this is
>>true.>>

Yes, this *is* tue. :o)

Life is good.
~Mary


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