Julie Bogart <[email protected]>

pp 484-485

"Also, you may find that your local home-school support group is
populated mostly by "unschoolers." Classical education is
diametrically opposed to "unschooling," which is immensely
popular among many homeschoolers. "Unschooling is
child-centered. It assumes that the child will learn all that she
needs to know by following her natural impulses and that any
learning that is "imposed" on the child by an authority figure will
prove unproductive.

Classical education is knowledge-focused, not child-focused. it
attempts to teach knowledge in a way that awakens the child's
interest, but the child's interest is not the sole determining factor
in whether or not a subject should be followed. How does a child
know whether something will interest and excite her unless she
works at unfamiliar (and perhaps intimidating) material to find
out what it's all about?

Unschoolers also tend to denigrate "book" learning in favor of
"real" learning. Many unschoolers claim that day-to-day realities
of family life provide plenty of opportunities for learning. for these
unschoolers, taking care of the house, grocery shopping,
cooking, car repair, working in the family business, writing
thank-you notes, and so on provide enough opportunity for
children to learn real-life skills without "doing school" om a
formal way.

While this may be true, a child's education shouldn't be limited to
"real life skills." Classically educated children should be able to
cook, write thank-you notes and tie their shoes. They also know
where their country came from, how to construct a logical
argument, and what puella means.

Unschoolers claim that students who aren't forced to learn
mathematics tables in third grade can pick them up in a day
once they hit sixth or seventh grade and get interested on their
own. In our experience, the student who doesn't learn the math
tables in third grade will never be comfortable enough with math
to get interested in sixth or seventh grade.

If you end up in a local group of unschoolers and you want to
follow the curriculum we've outlined in this book, you'll probably
need to switch groups."

This is the main place I found that deals with unschooling. I
thought there was a reference in the intro too but can't find it now.
The two authors, Susan and Jesse, believe in early phonics and
reading as well. (Susan is the daughter and Jesse is the
mother).

When I read TWTM, I like the idea of offering a child wonderful
ideas and facts of other places and times, teaching them to
reason and put their thoughts into competent writing and
enabling them to interact with information from a rich variety of
sources.

What got to us after using it as a "plan" is that the very goal I
wanted to achieve (that the child would be excited by and
stimulate in his/her education) became drudgery and the very
things I hoped would catch fire became onerous. By leaving the
kids alone, and by providing lots of great books to read, and
enjoying them together as they've been inteested, we've ended
up learning about many of the very topics Susan imagines they
wouldn't cover... left to themselves.

Anyway, nuff said. :)

Julie B

[email protected]

In a message dated 1/26/2003 4:28:52 PM Eastern Standard Time,
julie@... writes:


>
> This is the main place I found that deals with unschooling. I
> thought there was a reference in the intro too but can't find it now.
> The two authors, Susan and Jesse, believe in early phonics and
> reading as well. (Susan is the daughter and Jesse is the
> mother).
>

Thank you for posting the quotes from TWTM, Julie. I checked out the book
from the library a few years ago and remembered that there was at least one
passage that criticized unschooling and several paragraphs of instruction
that made me shake my head.
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In a message dated 1/26/03 2:29:09 PM, julie@... writes:

<< They also know
where their country came from, how to construct a logical
argument, and what puella means.
>>

Puella?
I hope it's a typo, because I have NO IDEA what "puella" means.

About the rest, I have to say "Wow" and "yikes."

I'll let you know when I get back from this conference how I survived. <g>
IF I survived.

http://www.shbe.info/pages/convention.htm

If anyone hasn't looked at who the other speakers will be, here is the lineup:

SIGMUND BROUWER IS A RENOWNED AUTHOR OF OVER 50 BOOKS. HIS BOOKS ARE ON OVER
2,000,000 BOOKSHELVES. He is a sought after speaker in home based education
circles as a well as being a very popular informational and motivational
speaker in public circles in the US and Canada. We want to thank Sigmund for
giving us a special rate that has allowed us to bring him in on our limited
convention budget.

Sandra Dodd is a popular speaker in the US at home based education functions.
She looks forward to her first time to talk with Saskatchewan home based
educators. Sandra Dodd taught English for 6 years in New Mexico, before they
choose to home educate their family. None of her children have attended
public school. She has mastered the art of educating without rigid structure.

Cheryl Garrett IS COMING AS A FEATURE SPEAKER. There have been so many
requests for her that we have chosen to invite her for 2003 convention. She
specializes in classical education and organizing your home based education.

HSLDA has been invited by popular request also. It is unfortunate that Dallas
Miller cannot atttend, but he had assured us the someone from the
organization will come to give us some of the update on home based education
situations at home and abroad. It is always important for us to keep abreast
of UN and federal legislation, etc. that can seriously effect our lives and
the education of our children.

[email protected]

In a message dated 1/26/03 2:29:09 PM, julie@... writes:

<< Unschoolers claim that students who aren't forced to learn
mathematics tables in third grade can pick them up in a day
once they hit sixth or seventh grade and get interested on their
own. >>

It's just SO foreign.
Altogether foreign.

But I do need to really read and think about it so I'll know how to respond
to their concerns.

I don't HAVE "students" in my home and they never "hit sixth grade," and if I
just even said that, the people would just look at me as though I just fell
out of a well.

But I have kids who can multiply in their heads. And they actually MULTIPLY,
they didn't memorize the answers. SHEEEESH!!!

<g>

Sandra

[email protected]

In a message dated 1/26/03 2:29:09 PM, julie@... writes:

<< If you end up in a local group of unschoolers and you want to
follow the curriculum we've outlined in this book, you'll probably
need to switch groups. >>

Sorry. I keep looking at it and it all totally stuns me.

Yes, if you want to believe what the book says about unschooling it will help
greatly if you stay away from any actual unschoolers!!!!

I knew people felt that way, but I didn't know they were charging people
money to "learn" about unschooling from them.

I am getting the physical willies. Shivering. Maybe I'll go drink some warm
tea and turn up the furnace.

But thank you VERY much for typing that in. I printed it out to put with my
workshop notes to study between now and then. It will help for me to have
names, so if someone says "What do you think about Susan Bauer's writings" I
won't have to say "WHO!?" but I can suavely say, "Oh, The Well Trained Mind?"
So thanks!!



Sandra

Jim Selvage

Puella is Latin for girl.

erin


> << They also know
> where their country came from, how to construct a logical
> argument, and what puella means.
> >>
>
> Puella?
> I hope it's a typo, because I have NO IDEA what "puella" means.
>
> About the rest, I have to say "Wow" and "yikes."
>
> I'll let you know when I get back from this conference how I survived. <g>
> IF I survived.
>
> http://www.shbe.info/pages/convention.htm
>
> If anyone hasn't looked at who the other speakers will be, here is the
lineup:
>
> SIGMUND BROUWER IS A RENOWNED AUTHOR OF OVER 50 BOOKS. HIS BOOKS ARE ON
OVER
> 2,000,000 BOOKSHELVES. He is a sought after speaker in home based
education
> circles as a well as being a very popular informational and motivational
> speaker in public circles in the US and Canada. We want to thank Sigmund
for
> giving us a special rate that has allowed us to bring him in on our
limited
> convention budget.
>
> Sandra Dodd is a popular speaker in the US at home based education
functions.
> She looks forward to her first time to talk with Saskatchewan home based
> educators. Sandra Dodd taught English for 6 years in New Mexico, before
they
> choose to home educate their family. None of her children have attended
> public school. She has mastered the art of educating without rigid
structure.
>
> Cheryl Garrett IS COMING AS A FEATURE SPEAKER. There have been so many
> requests for her that we have chosen to invite her for 2003 convention.
She
> specializes in classical education and organizing your home based
education.
>
> HSLDA has been invited by popular request also. It is unfortunate that
Dallas
> Miller cannot atttend, but he had assured us the someone from the
> organization will come to give us some of the update on home based
education
> situations at home and abroad. It is always important for us to keep
abreast
> of UN and federal legislation, etc. that can seriously effect our lives
and
> the education of our children.
>
>
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In a message dated 1/26/03 3:21:22 PM, jselvage@... writes:

<< Puella is Latin for girl. >>

Okay. Thanks.

I know of no famous Latin quotes about girls, nor has the word survived as a
root in any French or English words with which I'm familiar.

It doesn't hurt my feelings not to know it.

My kids don't know "puella," but they know that kids can learn to read and
multiply without being taught. <g>

Sandra

Kelly

I must confess that before I discovered unschooling, we used The Well-Trained Mind. I now politely refer to it as The Well-Fried Mind. My children were SOOO stressed trying to follow this method!!!

They start Latin in 3rd grade and my oldest was drowning within 6 months from the intensive English, Math, and Latin requirements, as well as their requirements for a chronological study of History and then Science as well, plus Art, Music & Bible requirements.

My children would start their day at 8 am and we were lucky if we had everything finished by 4 pm.

This was NOT what I started homeschooling for!!! They were soon crying when it was time to do school! :(

It might work for some, but it certainly didn't work for my kids. They needed to seriously de-school before they even wanted to tackle anything remotely "educational".

The MHEA Conference in Maryland (my state!) is the 5th of April and it's predominantly an unschooling conference and they're having Jessie Wise as their guest speaker this year (the co-author of The Well-Trained Mind). I'm wondering how it's going to work out!!! ::ducking in advance::

Kelly

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Sent: Sunday, January 26, 2003 5:13 PM
Subject: Re: [Unschooling-dotcom] TWTM--quotes about unschooling



In a message dated 1/26/03 2:29:09 PM, julie@... writes:

<< If you end up in a local group of unschoolers and you want to
follow the curriculum we've outlined in this book, you'll probably
need to switch groups. >>

Sorry. I keep looking at it and it all totally stuns me.

Yes, if you want to believe what the book says about unschooling it will help
greatly if you stay away from any actual unschoolers!!!!

I knew people felt that way, but I didn't know they were charging people
money to "learn" about unschooling from them.

I am getting the physical willies. Shivering. Maybe I'll go drink some warm
tea and turn up the furnace.

But thank you VERY much for typing that in. I printed it out to put with my
workshop notes to study between now and then. It will help for me to have
names, so if someone says "What do you think about Susan Bauer's writings" I
won't have to say "WHO!?" but I can suavely say, "Oh, The Well Trained Mind?"
So thanks!!



Sandra

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Jim Selvage

I acutually don't think knowing what "puella" means has had any positive
effect on my life either. I just learned it when the kids and I took a dive
into learning latin after reading TWTM - of course we know very little, and
I was the only one that was actually interested, the kids could care less.
Though my daughter would like to learn German. I like languages and may go
back to studying Latin now that I don't have to spend all my time correcting
their school work, lol.

blessings,
erin
> << Puella is Latin for girl. >>
>
> Okay. Thanks.
>
> I know of no famous Latin quotes about girls, nor has the word survived as
a
> root in any French or English words with which I'm familiar.
>
> It doesn't hurt my feelings not to know it.
>
> My kids don't know "puella," but they know that kids can learn to read and
> multiply without being taught. <g>
>
> Sandra
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Jim Selvage

Kelly,

We had the same result with TWTM, my children were older, started when they
were about 11 and 12. I don't think we ever finished school by 4:00 p.m.
(And we were all stressed!) My son, especially, would spend hours trying not
to do the outlining and any other writing! I have great schoolish looking
stuff for his "cumulative" file, but he hated every minute of it! Now, I
have nothing for his file, but he is smiling!

I don't think tyour conference is going to go very well, lol. You might
want to go incognito! We have the opposite situation here. Our convention
will be featuring John Taylor Gatto (I can't wait!) and I would say about
99% of the people would relate to the Bauers much better. I would asked if
you wanted to trade, but I am really looking forward to this. I imagine
most of my homeschooling friends will be skipping all of the general
sessions after the first one, and I will be skipping everything but the
general sessions!

blessings,
erin

> I must confess that before I discovered unschooling, we used The
Well-Trained Mind. I now politely refer to it as The Well-Fried Mind. My
children were SOOO stressed trying to follow this method!!!
>
> They start Latin in 3rd grade and my oldest was drowning within 6 months
from the intensive English, Math, and Latin requirements, as well as their
requirements for a chronological study of History and then Science as well,
plus Art, Music & Bible requirements.
>
> My children would start their day at 8 am and we were lucky if we had
everything finished by 4 pm.
>
> This was NOT what I started homeschooling for!!! They were soon crying
when it was time to do school! :(
>
> It might work for some, but it certainly didn't work for my kids. They
needed to seriously de-school before they even wanted to tackle anything
remotely "educational".
>
> The MHEA Conference in Maryland (my state!) is the 5th of April and it's
predominantly an unschooling conference and they're having Jessie Wise as
their guest speaker this year (the co-author of The Well-Trained Mind). I'm
wondering how it's going to work out!!! ::ducking in advance::
>
> Kelly

Kelli Traaseth

**"Also, you may find that your local home-school support group is
populated mostly by "unschoolers." Classical education is
diametrically opposed to "unschooling," which is immensely
popular among many homeschoolers. "Unschooling is
child-centered. It assumes that the child will learn all that she
needs to know by following her natural impulses and that any
learning that is "imposed" on the child by an authority figure will
prove unproductive.

Classical education is knowledge-focused, not child-focused. it
attempts to teach knowledge in a way that awakens the child's
interest, but the child's interest is not the sole determining factor
in whether or not a subject should be followed. How does a child
know whether something will interest and excite her unless she
works at unfamiliar (and perhaps intimidating) material to find
out what it's all about?

Unschoolers also tend to denigrate "book" learning in favor of
"real" learning. Many unschoolers claim that day-to-day realities
of family life provide plenty of opportunities for learning. for these
unschoolers, taking care of the house, grocery shopping,
cooking, car repair, working in the family business, writing
thank-you notes, and so on provide enough opportunity for
children to learn real-life skills without "doing school" om a
formal way.

While this may be true, a child's education shouldn't be limited to
"real life skills." Classically educated children should be able to
cook, write thank-you notes and tie their shoes. They also know
where their country came from, how to construct a logical
argument, and what puella means.

Unschoolers claim that students who aren't forced to learn
mathematics tables in third grade can pick them up in a day
once they hit sixth or seventh grade and get interested on their
own. In our experience, the student who doesn't learn the math
tables in third grade will never be comfortable enough with math
to get interested in sixth or seventh grade.

If you end up in a local group of unschoolers and you want to
follow the curriculum we've outlined in this book, you'll probably
need to switch groups."**

Ewwwwww,

And I hadn't even gotten to that!!

Kelli


"Julie Bogart <julie@...>" <julie@...> wrote:pp 484-485

"Also, you may find that your local home-school support group is
populated mostly by "unschoolers." Classical education is
diametrically opposed to "unschooling," which is immensely
popular among many homeschoolers. "Unschooling is
child-centered. It assumes that the child will learn all that she
needs to know by following her natural impulses and that any
learning that is "imposed" on the child by an authority figure will
prove unproductive.

Classical education is knowledge-focused, not child-focused. it
attempts to teach knowledge in a way that awakens the child's
interest, but the child's interest is not the sole determining factor
in whether or not a subject should be followed. How does a child
know whether something will interest and excite her unless she
works at unfamiliar (and perhaps intimidating) material to find
out what it's all about?

Unschoolers also tend to denigrate "book" learning in favor of
"real" learning. Many unschoolers claim that day-to-day realities
of family life provide plenty of opportunities for learning. for these
unschoolers, taking care of the house, grocery shopping,
cooking, car repair, working in the family business, writing
thank-you notes, and so on provide enough opportunity for
children to learn real-life skills without "doing school" om a
formal way.

While this may be true, a child's education shouldn't be limited to
"real life skills." Classically educated children should be able to
cook, write thank-you notes and tie their shoes. They also know
where their country came from, how to construct a logical
argument, and what puella means.

Unschoolers claim that students who aren't forced to learn
mathematics tables in third grade can pick them up in a day
once they hit sixth or seventh grade and get interested on their
own. In our experience, the student who doesn't learn the math
tables in third grade will never be comfortable enough with math
to get interested in sixth or seventh grade.

If you end up in a local group of unschoolers and you want to
follow the curriculum we've outlined in this book, you'll probably
need to switch groups."

This is the main place I found that deals with unschooling. I
thought there was a reference in the intro too but can't find it now.
The two authors, Susan and Jesse, believe in early phonics and
reading as well. (Susan is the daughter and Jesse is the
mother).

When I read TWTM, I like the idea of offering a child wonderful
ideas and facts of other places and times, teaching them to
reason and put their thoughts into competent writing and
enabling them to interact with information from a rich variety of
sources.

What got to us after using it as a "plan" is that the very goal I
wanted to achieve (that the child would be excited by and
stimulate in his/her education) became drudgery and the very
things I hoped would catch fire became onerous. By leaving the
kids alone, and by providing lots of great books to read, and
enjoying them together as they've been inteested, we've ended
up learning about many of the very topics Susan imagines they
wouldn't cover... left to themselves.

Anyway, nuff said. :)

Julie B


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Have a Nice Day!

Just a quick thought. I haven't read the other posts.

But the authors of TWTM also leave out the many OTHER wonderful, challenging, and difficult subjects that unschoolers learn about that are not even covered in TWTM like video game creation, fashion design, computer technology, electric wiring, etc

ALL of which could provide a substantial income.

Kristen
----- Original Message -----
From: Julie Bogart <julie@...>
To: [email protected]
Sent: Sunday, January 26, 2003 4:28 PM
Subject: [Unschooling-dotcom] TWTM--quotes about unschooling


pp 484-485

"Also, you may find that your local home-school support group is
populated mostly by "unschoolers." Classical education is
diametrically opposed to "unschooling," which is immensely
popular among many homeschoolers. "Unschooling is
child-centered. It assumes that the child will learn all that she
needs to know by following her natural impulses and that any
learning that is "imposed" on the child by an authority figure will
prove unproductive.

Classical education is knowledge-focused, not child-focused. it
attempts to teach knowledge in a way that awakens the child's
interest, but the child's interest is not the sole determining factor
in whether or not a subject should be followed. How does a child
know whether something will interest and excite her unless she
works at unfamiliar (and perhaps intimidating) material to find
out what it's all about?

Unschoolers also tend to denigrate "book" learning in favor of
"real" learning. Many unschoolers claim that day-to-day realities
of family life provide plenty of opportunities for learning. for these
unschoolers, taking care of the house, grocery shopping,
cooking, car repair, working in the family business, writing
thank-you notes, and so on provide enough opportunity for
children to learn real-life skills without "doing school" om a
formal way.

While this may be true, a child's education shouldn't be limited to
"real life skills." Classically educated children should be able to
cook, write thank-you notes and tie their shoes. They also know
where their country came from, how to construct a logical
argument, and what puella means.

Unschoolers claim that students who aren't forced to learn
mathematics tables in third grade can pick them up in a day
once they hit sixth or seventh grade and get interested on their
own. In our experience, the student who doesn't learn the math
tables in third grade will never be comfortable enough with math
to get interested in sixth or seventh grade.

If you end up in a local group of unschoolers and you want to
follow the curriculum we've outlined in this book, you'll probably
need to switch groups."

This is the main place I found that deals with unschooling. I
thought there was a reference in the intro too but can't find it now.
The two authors, Susan and Jesse, believe in early phonics and
reading as well. (Susan is the daughter and Jesse is the
mother).

When I read TWTM, I like the idea of offering a child wonderful
ideas and facts of other places and times, teaching them to
reason and put their thoughts into competent writing and
enabling them to interact with information from a rich variety of
sources.

What got to us after using it as a "plan" is that the very goal I
wanted to achieve (that the child would be excited by and
stimulate in his/her education) became drudgery and the very
things I hoped would catch fire became onerous. By leaving the
kids alone, and by providing lots of great books to read, and
enjoying them together as they've been inteested, we've ended
up learning about many of the very topics Susan imagines they
wouldn't cover... left to themselves.

Anyway, nuff said. :)

Julie B


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Kelli Traaseth

Erin,
**Our convention**
Where is this going to be?

Fargo? Grand forks?

Kelli


Jim Selvage <jselvage@...> wrote:Kelly,

We had the same result with TWTM, my children were older, started when they
were about 11 and 12. I don't think we ever finished school by 4:00 p.m.
(And we were all stressed!) My son, especially, would spend hours trying not
to do the outlining and any other writing! I have great schoolish looking
stuff for his "cumulative" file, but he hated every minute of it! Now, I
have nothing for his file, but he is smiling!

I don't think tyour conference is going to go very well, lol. You might
want to go incognito! We have the opposite situation here. Our convention
will be featuring John Taylor Gatto (I can't wait!) and I would say about
99% of the people would relate to the Bauers much better. I would asked if
you wanted to trade, but I am really looking forward to this. I imagine
most of my homeschooling friends will be skipping all of the general
sessions after the first one, and I will be skipping everything but the
general sessions!

blessings,
erin

> I must confess that before I discovered unschooling, we used The
Well-Trained Mind. I now politely refer to it as The Well-Fried Mind. My
children were SOOO stressed trying to follow this method!!!
>
> They start Latin in 3rd grade and my oldest was drowning within 6 months
from the intensive English, Math, and Latin requirements, as well as their
requirements for a chronological study of History and then Science as well,
plus Art, Music & Bible requirements.
>
> My children would start their day at 8 am and we were lucky if we had
everything finished by 4 pm.
>
> This was NOT what I started homeschooling for!!! They were soon crying
when it was time to do school! :(
>
> It might work for some, but it certainly didn't work for my kids. They
needed to seriously de-school before they even wanted to tackle anything
remotely "educational".
>
> The MHEA Conference in Maryland (my state!) is the 5th of April and it's
predominantly an unschooling conference and they're having Jessie Wise as
their guest speaker this year (the co-author of The Well-Trained Mind). I'm
wondering how it's going to work out!!! ::ducking in advance::
>
> Kelly



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In a message dated 1/26/03 4:29:23 PM, litlrooh@... writes:

<< But the authors of TWTM also leave out the many OTHER wonderful,
challenging, and difficult subjects that unschoolers learn about that are not
even covered in TWTM like video game creation, fashion design, computer
technology, electric wiring, etc

<<ALL of which could provide a substantial income. >>

But are they CLASSICAL?
Are they "REAL" in the real way that Ivy League colleges are real?
Does Harvard give PhDs in video game creation, fashion design or electrical
wiring?

Sandra

Betsy

<< If you end up in a local group of unschoolers and you want to
follow the curriculum we've outlined in this book, you'll probably
need to switch groups. >>

Fast! Before "your kids" figure out that the other kids are having a
lot more fun.

(At least, that could be what she means.)

I'm imagining a Well Trained Mom at a park day outnumbered by
unschoolers. "I just can't get Johnny to memorize his list of
pharoahs," she sighs.

She might be in danger of having someone snort and accidently spray her
with Pepsi or some other newfangled beverage.

Betsy

PS (I do know some lovely homeschooling moms that have chosen the WTM
approach for their kids. I don't snort and spit at them IRL, honest.
But the quote from the book is just too damned provocative.)

**so if someone says "What do you think about Susan Bauer's writings" I
won't have to say "WHO!?" but I can suavely say, "Oh, The Well Trained
Mind?" **

Also, if you look at her book on Amazon, you can see book recommendation
lists for classical homeschooling that include her book. Looking at
those lists is an interesting form of anthropology or sociology or
snoopology, whatever.

Betsy

**Unschoolers claim that students who aren't forced to learn
mathematics tables in third grade can pick them up in a day
once they hit sixth or seventh grade and get interested on their
own. In our experience, the student who doesn't learn the math
tables in third grade will never be comfortable enough with math
to get interested in sixth or seventh grade.**

This jumped out at me, the "in our experience" part.

What experience? How much experience does she have with unschooled
children? Or is she extrapolating from schooled children that didn't
learn their times tables at the proper times?

Betsy

Jim Selvage

Kelli,

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Fargo, Holiday Inn 3803 13th Ave. S

blessings,
erin


>
> Erin,
> **Our convention**
> Where is this going to be?
>
> Fargo? Grand forks?
>
> Kelli
>

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In a message dated 1/26/03 5:09:23 PM, ecsamhill@... writes:

<< She might be in danger of having someone snort and accidently spray her
with Pepsi or some other newfangled beverage. >>

CLASSIC COKE!

Kelly

Oh!!! I love John Taylor Gatto!!! He's my favorite author by far!! I'm known in my unschooling group as the Gatto Groupie ;)

Kelly

----- Original Message -----
From: Jim Selvage
To: [email protected]
Sent: Sunday, January 26, 2003 5:42 PM
Subject: Re: [Unschooling-dotcom] TWTM--quotes about unschooling


Kelly,

We had the same result with TWTM, my children were older, started when they
were about 11 and 12. I don't think we ever finished school by 4:00 p.m.
(And we were all stressed!) My son, especially, would spend hours trying not
to do the outlining and any other writing! I have great schoolish looking
stuff for his "cumulative" file, but he hated every minute of it! Now, I
have nothing for his file, but he is smiling!

I don't think tyour conference is going to go very well, lol. You might
want to go incognito! We have the opposite situation here. Our convention
will be featuring John Taylor Gatto (I can't wait!) and I would say about
99% of the people would relate to the Bauers much better. I would asked if
you wanted to trade, but I am really looking forward to this. I imagine
most of my homeschooling friends will be skipping all of the general
sessions after the first one, and I will be skipping everything but the
general sessions!

blessings,
erin

> I must confess that before I discovered unschooling, we used The
Well-Trained Mind. I now politely refer to it as The Well-Fried Mind. My
children were SOOO stressed trying to follow this method!!!
>
> They start Latin in 3rd grade and my oldest was drowning within 6 months
from the intensive English, Math, and Latin requirements, as well as their
requirements for a chronological study of History and then Science as well,
plus Art, Music & Bible requirements.
>
> My children would start their day at 8 am and we were lucky if we had
everything finished by 4 pm.
>
> This was NOT what I started homeschooling for!!! They were soon crying
when it was time to do school! :(
>
> It might work for some, but it certainly didn't work for my kids. They
needed to seriously de-school before they even wanted to tackle anything
remotely "educational".
>
> The MHEA Conference in Maryland (my state!) is the 5th of April and it's
predominantly an unschooling conference and they're having Jessie Wise as
their guest speaker this year (the co-author of The Well-Trained Mind). I'm
wondering how it's going to work out!!! ::ducking in advance::
>
> Kelly



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Gerard Westenberg

<<Classical education is knowledge-focused, not child-focused. >>

This quote was really interesting to me, given that I am re-reading David Guterson's Family Matters: Why Homeschooling Makes Sense.

Guterson argues, in chapter one, that good education *should be child centred - we are talking about a real child and not a robot. After considering and adapting to the child, then look at the knowledge, method, whatever, he says. The child and his/her needs are more important than the method and facts. Then any learning is real, relevant, remembered... ...

I have read TWTM. I have also read Gatto. Both talk about the importance, to our civilisation, of thinking and not just following. Bauer/Wise suggest a structured curricula to teach thinking, which seems a contradiction in terms. Gatto suggests being with the child and their interests; using real life experiences and disussion. ....Leonie W.


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Kelli Traaseth

I'm psyched, its only 2 1/2 hours from me. I'll be there in March.

I wish I could bring a ton of people with me who question my unschooling and homeschooling choices. He would really make them think, I hand out my Dumbing Us Down to everyone, havn't handed out the Underground History yet tho' , its a bit intimidating for main stream folks who have never heard of his ideas before! I havn't worked my way through the whole thing yet either. This would probably be a good time, before I see him speak.

Kelli


Kelly <apmomto4@...> wrote:Oh!!! I love John Taylor Gatto!!! He's my favorite author by far!! I'm known in my unschooling group as the Gatto Groupie ;)

Kelly

----- Original Message -----
From: Jim Selvage
To: [email protected]
Sent: Sunday, January 26, 2003 5:42 PM
Subject: Re: [Unschooling-dotcom] TWTM--quotes about unschooling


Kelly,

We had the same result with TWTM, my children were older, started when they
were about 11 and 12. I don't think we ever finished school by 4:00 p.m.
(And we were all stressed!) My son, especially, would spend hours trying not
to do the outlining and any other writing! I have great schoolish looking
stuff for his "cumulative" file, but he hated every minute of it! Now, I
have nothing for his file, but he is smiling!

I don't think tyour conference is going to go very well, lol. You might
want to go incognito! We have the opposite situation here. Our convention
will be featuring John Taylor Gatto (I can't wait!) and I would say about
99% of the people would relate to the Bauers much better. I would asked if
you wanted to trade, but I am really looking forward to this. I imagine
most of my homeschooling friends will be skipping all of the general
sessions after the first one, and I will be skipping everything but the
general sessions!

blessings,
erin

> I must confess that before I discovered unschooling, we used The
Well-Trained Mind. I now politely refer to it as The Well-Fried Mind. My
children were SOOO stressed trying to follow this method!!!
>
> They start Latin in 3rd grade and my oldest was drowning within 6 months
from the intensive English, Math, and Latin requirements, as well as their
requirements for a chronological study of History and then Science as well,
plus Art, Music & Bible requirements.
>
> My children would start their day at 8 am and we were lucky if we had
everything finished by 4 pm.
>
> This was NOT what I started homeschooling for!!! They were soon crying
when it was time to do school! :(
>
> It might work for some, but it certainly didn't work for my kids. They
needed to seriously de-school before they even wanted to tackle anything
remotely "educational".
>
> The MHEA Conference in Maryland (my state!) is the 5th of April and it's
predominantly an unschooling conference and they're having Jessie Wise as
their guest speaker this year (the co-author of The Well-Trained Mind). I'm
wondering how it's going to work out!!! ::ducking in advance::
>
> Kelly



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In a message dated 1/26/03 5:14:58 PM Eastern Standard Time,
SandraDodd@... writes:

> <<If you end up in a local group of unschoolers and you want to
> follow the curriculum we've outlined in this book, you'll probably
> need to switch groups. >>
>
>

I am the only unschooler in both of the groups I go to and that hasn't
stopped me. I try to be accepting of other people and answer questions. So
far they have been more than accepting of me.
Pam G.


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In a message dated 1/26/03 6:49:59 PM Eastern Standard Time,
kellitraas@... writes:

> **Our convention**
> Where is this going to be?
>
> Fargo? Grand forks?
>
>

Somewhere and at a time when there is lots to do and see. We would come and
take a vacation around the convention. Love to go to places we have never
been before.
Pam G. in NC


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Julie Bogart <[email protected]>

--- In [email protected], genant2@a...
wrote:
> In a message dated 1/26/03 5:14:58 PM Eastern Standard
Time,
> SandraDodd@a... writes:
>
> > <<If you end up in a local group of unschoolers and you want
to
> > follow the curriculum we've outlined in this book, you'll
probably
> > need to switch groups. >>
> >
> >
>
> I am the only unschooler in both of the groups I go to and that
hasn't
> stopped me. I try to be accepting of other people and answer
questions. So
> far they have been more than accepting of me.
> Pam G.

I know. I sort of chuckled rereading this part. I don't know a single
unschooler where I am. No danger of the poor classical
education person encountering a rabid group of unschoolers
here...

I felt that section was a dig against the unschooling community
and I couldn't figure out why. What are they trying to counter?

Julie B

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In a message dated 1/26/03 8:44:37 PM Eastern Standard Time, genant2@...
writes:

> I try to be accepting of other people and answer questions.


Pam, I think THAT is exactly the key. I know my approach to EVERYTHING in
life is usually radically different than the mainstream, but I (usually) get
along well with others and dont have a problem interacting with and enjoying
the company of others. Round here in the Bible Belt, it's not all bad, is
it.. :-)

Teresa





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In a message dated 1/26/03 6:41:32 PM, westen@... writes:

<< Guterson argues, in chapter one, that good education *should be child
centred - we are talking about a real child and not a robot. After
considering and adapting to the child, then look at the knowledge, method,
whatever, he says. The child and his/her needs are more important than the
method and facts. >>

Thank you. I'm saving all this good stuff in case I'm ambushed by some
subset of 1,000 Christian homeschoolers in a foreign country.

Guterson's making sense!

Sometimes people have said kids can't possibly learn algebra in the real
world.
So I've said "What are you saying, that algebra doesn't exist in the real
world?"

"Yes."

And when they say "yes," that's the wrong answer, because I pin them to the
mat with
"Then why learn it?"

So I suppose some classically trained people could tell me in Latin that I'm
ig'nernt, but how many people would understand what they had just said OR
believe them?

Sandra

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In a message dated 1/26/03 6:44:38 PM, genant2@... writes:

<< In a message dated 1/26/03 5:14:58 PM Eastern Standard Time,
SandraDodd@... writes:

> <<If you end up in a local group of unschoolers and you want to
> follow the curriculum we've outlined in this book, you'll probably
> need to switch groups. >>
>
>

I am the only unschooler in both of the groups I go to and that hasn't
stopped me. I try to be accepting of other people and answer questions. So
far they have been more than accepting of me. >>

That's not my quote. That doesn't matter. It was a quote from a book on The
Well Trained Mind, recommending that people who are trying to follow that
method would NOT do well in a group full of unschoolers.

It's not about a single unschooler in other groups.

Sandra

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In a message dated 1/26/03 9:00:26 PM Eastern Standard Time,
SandraDodd@... writes:

> That's not my quote. That doesn't matter

I knew that and usually delete the writen by part but it slipped by this
time, sorry about that.
Pam G.


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Kelli Traaseth

Um, you want to go on a vacation in March to Fargo, ND? <g>

Wow!

Kelli




genant2@... wrote:In a message dated 1/26/03 6:49:59 PM Eastern Standard Time,
kellitraas@... writes:

> **Our convention**
> Where is this going to be?
>
> Fargo? Grand forks?
>
>

Somewhere and at a time when there is lots to do and see. We would come and
take a vacation around the convention. Love to go to places we have never
been before.
Pam G. in NC


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In a message dated 1/26/03 6:52:11 PM, julie@... writes:

<< I felt that section was a dig against the unschooling community
and I couldn't figure out why. What are they trying to counter? >>

I think it's the evil idea that children can have fun while they're learning.

The sin of sloth and the lack of discipline, I think.

And as happened just this week on the usually-very-quiet New Mexico list,
someone said that when I described unschooling (which I did because someone
asked) I made it seem that some of the things they were doing were
unnecessary.

"Seems, Madam? Nay, it is. I know not 'seems'."

I could've said that, but I didn't.

If a parent chooses to teach reading and another family's children learn to
read without that teaching, then that teaching has been proven to have been
unnecessary.

But if the parents have told the children repeatedly that they HAVE to do
what the mom's making them do or they won't learn to read, then our lives
make them liars.

If a parent tells a little kid that they HAVE to do book reports or they'll
never get into college, if my happy slacker kids go to college, that mother
was not truthful.

We are a great danger to parents who are forcing their children to "do work"
with threats and promises and guarantees.

Sandra