Re: [Unschooling-dotcom] Re: Sex was Abortion
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In a message dated 1/13/03 3:17:26 PM Eastern Standard Time, sheran@...
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(I;m not sure how you made that leap.)
This reminds me of "If you don't fear God, how can you be a good person?"
Physically, an abortion is surgery, is not painless and certainly requires
recovery time. There are otehr reasons not to have one other than because
"it's a child".There are lots of reasons to avoid sex other than pregnancy or
VD. I hope my children all find partners that are as emotionally well
adjusted and not needy, but the fact is, there are loads of people who have
sex for stupid reasons. There are loads of people who will lie about,
manipulate, and cheat to get it. Winding up with one oif those people are a
very good reason to avaoid sex. I think it unfortunate that sex in our world
comes with so much baggage. It is a normal healthy physical act. And it
doesn't HAVE to be between two committed same sex people to be a good, happy,
healthy and right thing.
*~*Elissa Jill*~*
unschooling Momma to 3 beautiful brilliant people
Loving partner for life to Joey
terrible guitarist, fair singer and happy woman.
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writes:
> . IfWe wouldn't? I would.
> there isn't a child involved, it isn't as much of an unschooling
> issue, except that we wouldn't mind telling our kids that it's ok to
> have sex and then have an abortion if they get pregnant.
>
>
(I;m not sure how you made that leap.)
This reminds me of "If you don't fear God, how can you be a good person?"
Physically, an abortion is surgery, is not painless and certainly requires
recovery time. There are otehr reasons not to have one other than because
"it's a child".There are lots of reasons to avoid sex other than pregnancy or
VD. I hope my children all find partners that are as emotionally well
adjusted and not needy, but the fact is, there are loads of people who have
sex for stupid reasons. There are loads of people who will lie about,
manipulate, and cheat to get it. Winding up with one oif those people are a
very good reason to avaoid sex. I think it unfortunate that sex in our world
comes with so much baggage. It is a normal healthy physical act. And it
doesn't HAVE to be between two committed same sex people to be a good, happy,
healthy and right thing.
*~*Elissa Jill*~*
unschooling Momma to 3 beautiful brilliant people
Loving partner for life to Joey
terrible guitarist, fair singer and happy woman.
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In a message dated 1/13/2003 4:17:18 PM Eastern Standard Time,
Earthmomma67@... writes:
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Earthmomma67@... writes:
> . And itOR "between two committed opposite sex people" either. <G>
> doesn't HAVE to be between two committed same sex people to be a good,
> happy,
> healthy and right thing.
>
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In a message dated 1/13/03 6:13:36 PM Eastern Standard Time,
kbcdlovejo@... writes:
*~*Elissa Jill*~*
unschooling Momma to 3 beautiful brilliant people
Loving partner for life to Joey
terrible guitarist, fair singer and happy woman.
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kbcdlovejo@... writes:
> >. And itThat's what I meant! LOL
> >doesn't HAVE to be between two committed same sex people to be a good,
> >happy,
> >healthy and right thing.
> >
>
> OR "between two committed opposite sex people" either. <G>
>
>
>
*~*Elissa Jill*~*
unschooling Momma to 3 beautiful brilliant people
Loving partner for life to Joey
terrible guitarist, fair singer and happy woman.
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