Re: [Unschooling-dotcom] Digest Number 2351
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In a message dated 9/9/2002 1:30:09 PM Pacific Daylight Time,
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throughout his life or not. One thing to do is to ask him to be really
conscious of how he's feeling inside during the seconds right before he
lashes out. Get him really aware of the feelings, even though for him they
build up really quickly. Get him to articulate them -- naming them really
really helps, just in itself, because he can SAY them outloud.
Try reading, ICPS --- Marilyn Shure -- I Can Problem Solve. It'll give you a
lot of really concrete ideas for this kind of thing.
--pam
The National Home Education Network
http://www.NHEN.org
Changing the Way the World Sees Homeschooling!
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[email protected] writes:
> This doesn't happen every day but enough for me to worry why I can'tKids with low impulse control are really difficult -- and it may last
> solve this. You can tell right away he's sorry he does it but just
> doesn't think about it first. We've worked out together all kinds of
> other ways for him to solve the problem but when the time comes, he
> doesn't use any of them. These are the 2 that are 13 months apart.
> They are almost 7 and 8. She's the younger one.
throughout his life or not. One thing to do is to ask him to be really
conscious of how he's feeling inside during the seconds right before he
lashes out. Get him really aware of the feelings, even though for him they
build up really quickly. Get him to articulate them -- naming them really
really helps, just in itself, because he can SAY them outloud.
Try reading, ICPS --- Marilyn Shure -- I Can Problem Solve. It'll give you a
lot of really concrete ideas for this kind of thing.
--pam
The National Home Education Network
http://www.NHEN.org
Changing the Way the World Sees Homeschooling!
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Mary Bianco
>From: PSoroosh@...!
>Try reading, ICPS --- Marilyn Shure -- I Can Problem Solve. It'll give you
>a
>lot of really concrete ideas for this kind of thing.
Thanks so much Pam. The books I've tried so far did not apply. I never heard
of this one. I'll check it out.
Mary B
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Mica
Pam could you tell us more about ICPS --- Marilyn Shure -- I Can Problem
Solve? It is not in either of my nearby library collections - so if it
is very useful I could recommend it.
Mica
ghal9720@...
Stawell, Victoria, Australia
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From: PSoroosh@... [mailto:PSoroosh@...]
Sent: Tuesday, 10 September 2002 10:14 AM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [Unschooling-dotcom] Digest Number 2351
In a message dated 9/9/2002 1:30:09 PM Pacific Daylight Time,
[email protected] writes:
throughout his life or not. One thing to do is to ask him to be really
conscious of how he's feeling inside during the seconds right before he
lashes out. Get him really aware of the feelings, even though for him
they
build up really quickly. Get him to articulate them -- naming them
really
really helps, just in itself, because he can SAY them outloud.
Try reading, ICPS --- Marilyn Shure -- I Can Problem Solve. It'll give
you a
lot of really concrete ideas for this kind of thing.
--pam
The National Home Education Network
http://www.NHEN.org
Changing the Way the World Sees Homeschooling!
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Solve? It is not in either of my nearby library collections - so if it
is very useful I could recommend it.
Mica
ghal9720@...
Stawell, Victoria, Australia
-----Original Message-----
From: PSoroosh@... [mailto:PSoroosh@...]
Sent: Tuesday, 10 September 2002 10:14 AM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [Unschooling-dotcom] Digest Number 2351
In a message dated 9/9/2002 1:30:09 PM Pacific Daylight Time,
[email protected] writes:
> This doesn't happen every day but enough for me to worry why I can'tKids with low impulse control are really difficult -- and it may last
> solve this. You can tell right away he's sorry he does it but just
> doesn't think about it first. We've worked out together all kinds of
> other ways for him to solve the problem but when the time comes, he
> doesn't use any of them. These are the 2 that are 13 months apart.
> They are almost 7 and 8. She's the younger one.
throughout his life or not. One thing to do is to ask him to be really
conscious of how he's feeling inside during the seconds right before he
lashes out. Get him really aware of the feelings, even though for him
they
build up really quickly. Get him to articulate them -- naming them
really
really helps, just in itself, because he can SAY them outloud.
Try reading, ICPS --- Marilyn Shure -- I Can Problem Solve. It'll give
you a
lot of really concrete ideas for this kind of thing.
--pam
The National Home Education Network
http://www.NHEN.org
Changing the Way the World Sees Homeschooling!
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