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In a message dated 09/28/1999 2:53:16 AM !!!First Boot!!!, FreeSchool@...
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<< She is always worried about calling things to their
attention (like lack of child support and harrassment), she is afraid that
they will get tired of hearing from her and condemn her for it instead of
her
husband.
I will pass on the things that you told me. Thank you for all your help and
I will let you know how it goes.
Tami >>
Tami-
(I changed the sub line, LOL) Just keep telling her that Friend of the Court
has NO IDEA of what is going on without her persistence. I am now (as of last
night) dealing with a my youngest's mother. That sounds funny, but my dh had
a child previous to us, and we went thru FOC to take mother's rights away.
After everything was said and done, she just no showed. It has been 2 years,
and we can officially get her on abandonment. Well, she showed up here
yesterday, wanting to take the child for a visit! YE GADS. WE denied her.
Back to your friend...Just keep pressing, make sure that FOC (who are only
mediators) know what is up, and only give him as little as possible. FOC will
hit her with trust, and I know that she does not trust him.
You are always welcome to my help, and I am here for you- even if it is to
vent...
Stephanie

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In a message dated 9/28/99 10:16:06 AM Central Daylight Time,
LifesLearn@... writes:

<< Back to your friend...Just keep pressing, make sure that FOC (who are only
mediators) know what is up, and only give him as little as possible. FOC
will
hit her with trust, and I know that she does not trust him. >>

Stephanie,
I will do that. I have passed the other messages on to my friend. She
was surprised at some of the things you suggested. I will continue to do so.
Thanks for your help, I will keep you posted.
Tami