Tia Leschke

>Karin, my boys fight and often get physical, too. In fact, that usually
>is what "raises my hackles". I think you have the answer when you say
>you deal with it day by day and minute by minute. There really are no
>pat answers.

One that I heard after the older ones were grown was to sit the two
fighting kids facing each other and just out of reach. They have to stay
there until they both agree on a resolution. I don't know how it would
work in practise though.
Tia

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Tia Leschke
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On Vancouver Island