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In a message dated 11/16/01 8:58:28 PM Mountain Standard Time,
leschke@... writes:


> . I remember my mother's
> fave thing to say when me sister and I were bickering. "I'm going to knock
> your heads together." Sometimes I'd like to do a cyber head-knocking
> around here. <g>
>

It's not fair to punishment to the tormenter and the tormented both.

I think we should discuss issues without being personal, and those who can't
discuss issues don't have to.


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Tia Leschke

>
> > . I remember my mother's
> > fave thing to say when me sister and I were bickering. "I'm going to
> knock
> > your heads together." Sometimes I'd like to do a cyber head-knocking
> > around here. <g>
> >
>
>It's not fair to punishment to the tormenter and the tormented both.

Actually.....remembering my own bickering with my sister, watching my own
and other kids bicker, and watching the bickering that goes on periodically
here, I'd say that there *is* no tormenter and tormented. Or at least
those roles reverse constantly. I know I *thought* when I was younger that
it was all my sister's fault, but I now realize I did just as much
provoking as she did.


>I think we should discuss issues without being personal, and those who can't
>discuss issues don't have to.

I agree.
Tia

Tia Leschke leschke@...
On Vancouver Island
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