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In a message dated 9/27/01 9:31:47 AM US Mountain Standard Time,
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> I want to help give new unschoolers a head start so they don't have to take
> as long to figure out easy ways as I did and some others did.
>
> Sandra
>

That's what makes life the journey and not the destination. It's like when I
was a teeenager and I would go out in England in the winter with a thin dress
on and high heel shoes in 40 degree weather and be freezing my bum off, my
mum would say "put a coat on your'll still look good when you get where you
are going, but you won't be cold"... Would I listen? Heck no... I needed to
experience it myself and then see it was a silly thing so that I can say to
my son when he's going out in his underwear to play on the playset in the
garden in the winter "it's cold honey don't you think you need to put some
clothes on?" and he can say "no it's not" and on and on and on.... Hopefully
I won't say that to my son and I will be more enlightened, that's the whole
idea of unschooling for me... but as I grew up I couldn't learn by others'
mistakes and there are very few people who can. We have to experience those
things for ourselves and then make decisions about whether a situation works
or not.

JMHO

Dawn
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In a message dated 9/27/01 1:12:28 PM, NumoAstro@... writes:

<< I couldn't learn by others'
mistakes and there are very few people who can. We have to experience those
things for ourselves and then make decisions about whether a situation works
or not. >>

True, but unless people have the knowledge of the possibility of unschooling
and the courage to try it, they won't live long enough to experience it
themselves. Kids' lives go quickly, and it's easy to miss information like
this out in the wide school-filled world. Then it's easy to experiment with
two or three different curriculae until the kid is too old to experience
child-like wonder.

It happens.

Sandra