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In a message dated 09/11/2001 4:20:36 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
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> I think I would say something that doesn't attack the parent. I think I
> would say something like "Do you know about homeschooling? We really love
> it. " Then follow up with more info if there was any interest. In a way
> that reassures the parent that there are several other options without
> finding fault with the parent -- and probably just making them defensive
> anyway. I would try to offer hope and encouragement without a pinch of
> judgement and superiority. Some folks think they have found the answer --
> that's terrific. But it's not the answer for everyone. The only "answer"
> for everyone, imo, is to figure it out for yourself, one situation, one
> family, one child at a time. The only "movement" I hope to see developing
> is
> one where every parent knows what all their choices are and feels confident
> enough to make a conscious decision. Whether they end up hsing or not.
>

I have a teenage friend who has been interested in what we do for years. Her
parents, whom I like and respect very much, were never really willing to
consider homeschooling...until this summer. We were talking and they said
they'd be open to it. Ultimately Emily decided she'd miss too much her last
couple of years of friends and acquaintances, but she really appreciated
making that decision knowing she had options.

Kathryn


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I would try to offer hope and encouragement without a pinch of
judgement and superiority.

Sorry if it sounded like that. Judgement and superiority never intended.
Deb L

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In a message dated 09/12/2001 3:10:31 AM !!!First Boot!!!, ddzimlew@...
writes:


> I would try to offer hope and encouragement without a pinch of
> judgement and superiority.
>
> Sorry if it sounded like that. Judgement and superiority never intended.
> Deb L
>


Not meant personally. Condescension and a holier-than-thou attitude just
ooze from some messages though.

Nance



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