Sheri Piersol

My husband and I are at odds (not uncommon) about wether the kids are
respectful or disrespectful. I think my husband confuses obedience with
respect. Just because the kids don't immediately obey, my husband gets upset
because they don't respect me. I feel they do respect me, just don't always
obey. So, how does one show respect? Is disobedience always a sign of
disrespect? I mean the kids do obey, just not right away. I think we have a
great amount of respect for one another, but don't want to be fooling
myself. I love the various opinions and advice from all of you and thank you
for your help in advance. :)

~Sheri