Mary E Gates

>>As much as I love being a SAHM, I would not force it on anyone else and
don't like seeing it used as a wedge between mothers who are all probably
just trying to do their best -- as they perceive it and as they are able.
>>

This issue is similar to homeschooling and breastfeeding. We can all
state the reasons why these are beneficial for children, but can never
imagine all the factors that each family must consider before making a
decision.
However, there is also a concept called INFORMED CHOICE. This is what is
often lacking in our society. We go along blindly doing what most people
do without thinking long and hard to learn all the pros and cons, before
deciding what really might be best for our family (and periodically
reevaluating).
Mary Ellen
Who is really enjoying this list but probably spending too much time at
the computer!

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In a message dated 8/25/99 6:10:59 PM EST, megates@... writes:

<< However, there is also a concept called INFORMED CHOICE. This is what is
often lacking in our society. We go along blindly doing what most people
do without thinking long and hard to learn all the pros and cons, before
deciding what really might be best for our family (and periodically
reevaluating).
Mary Ellen >>
See, I think Mary Ellen stated it much better than I did! But that is what I
meant. I felt comfortable enough with this list to state my opinions and it
turned out much differently than I expected! Again, my apologies!
Lori in TX