Sonia Ulan

Corallyn wrote:

>>. I guess my point in saying that is to let
> you all know that your all "mighty correctness" in the issue is not
> as agreed upon as you would like to think. Corallyn.
>
>
>
> > Sonia Ulan wrote:

I've come in on this discussion late. But I just
> wanted to add this : In all my years on the Internet (since 1987 to
> be precise) I have *never* seen a productive discussion on the topic
> of spanking. Never once has someone who is against spanking decided
> that it was okay for *anyone* to spank their child. I haven't seen
> anyone who is for spanking decide that perhaps their method of
> discipline needed changing. Instead what I have seen is what
> happened here, the original poster felt misunderstood, and usually
> gets defensive. Others get angry at the thought of a child being
> hurt or at the thought of someone judging their parenting techniques.
> Emotions run high on both sides of the issue. When it all dies down,
> people are hurt, their feelings of trust in each other has been
> eroded. Some people leave the list in hurt and/or anger. Others
> decide it is best if they become lurkers. The end result is the
> wisdom that each of us can gain from this list is diminished.
> >
> > This is why Lynda and others were hesitant to continue this
> discussion.
>


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EXCUSE ME!!! I, Sonia Ulan, did not write this!!! Thank you for
allowing me to clarify.

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