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In a message dated 7/19/05 3:24:57 PM, maggioncalda@... writes:


>
> Me: 9 o'clock
>
> SIL:  I can't talk to her tonight because I go to bed early for
> work.  Tell her I will talk to her after work tomorrow night.
>

EEEEK.
What
a
bitch.

She can't stay up a little late to talk to her own DAUGHTER!?

What about when Noelle wants to go on dates? Will her mom never wait up for
her? Will she make her be home before her mom's bedtime?

Were these people just not planning to have children so they're treating her
badly for being alive!?!?

She would make her (AND YOU) go through an additional 24 hours of YOUR
uncomfortable lives rather than set an alarm and wake up long enough to talk to her
own daughter?

-=-End of Story, really! -=-

Not really. You'll probably be getting updates from Noelle and her parents
for years to come. <g>
Please share!!

Sandra


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Pam Sorooshian

I was thinking she might LOVE to be invited back and get to choose to
come or not. Might behave entirely differently next time. Is it too far
for her to come for just a few days?

-pam


On Jul 19, 2005, at 4:17 PM, SandraDodd@... wrote:

> Not really. You'll probably be getting updates from Noelle and her
> parents
> for years to come. <g>
> Please share!!

m59z85

> Were these people just not planning to have children so they're
treating her
> badly for being alive!?!?

Funny you should say that--I have another sister-in-law who has been
telling me for years that Noelle's parents should have never had
children. I never said anything because I had not experienced what
my other SIL had--of course I called this SIL and told her that now
I see what she means.


> She would make her (AND YOU) go through an additional 24 hours of
YOUR
> uncomfortable lives rather than set an alarm and wake up long
enough to talk to her
> own daughter?

Yes, can you even believe that?

Noelle's mother is a nurse and has also forbidden Noelle from
calling her at work. I asked why and Noelle said it was because
Noelle called her one time to ask where something was at home and
this made her mother angry. She won't even answer her calls. My
question is: what if there is an emergency? Once, school was
closed early because of ice and snow and Noelle made her way home
and didn't call anyone (or maybe they wouldn't take her calls?!) and
her parents were surprised to find her at home alone when they got
there. I think she was 11 or 12.

> -=-End of Story, really! -=-
> Not really. You'll probably be getting updates from Noelle and
her parents
> for years to come. <g>
> Please share!!

I think you're right! And I will share!

Linda