threegirlmama

This will definitely be helpful for us. The only thing keeping me from completely committing to unschooling is the worry that he will say "hey, wait a minute, homeschooling was on thing, but THIS? " So I am making small changes and we are having good conversations, and I am encouraged. I think the best thing is that he sees the peacefulness and joy in me and our girls, and I think that is a great move in the right direction. Trying to move slowly, but not too slowly!!

Amanda's Shoebox

I'm still sorting through working out how to use unschooling principles with my husband so these links are very helpful! I printed the following from the first link for my office wall, but replaced "child" with my husband's name:
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* modelling positive behaviour
* trying to understand your child’s behaviour rather than reacting against it
* letting go of control, of “shoulds”, “musts” etc.
* validating and providing a safe space for your child to express their feelings
* viewing the world from your child’s point of view
* getting in touch with your own needs and constuctively, lovingly and respectfully communicating that to your child in ways and times that are appropriate
* being on your “child’s side” rather than arguing against them
* assuming the best possible motives behind your child’s behaviour and engaging with them accordingly
* working with your child to develop win- win solutions for all involved
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--- In [email protected], Sandra Dodd <Sandra@...> wrote:
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> I don't remember if it was here or somewhere else that someone was
> saying her husband wasn't convinced. These might help you move
> through the next weeks and months in a smooth way.
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> http://theparentingpit.com/unschooling/unauthorised-dad-handbook/
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> http://sandradodd.com/dads
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