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Sharon,
I've nursed four babies and so far, yes, the "empty sack" thing goes
away...but so do my boobs!!
I am very, very flat normally. But when nursing I'm about a size "C".
I hate giving that up. YK?
It took about two years for that flabby skin thing to tighten back up.
Sheesh....it's all gonna be wrinkly, hanging skin forever this time!!!
oh well.

I think that a totally uninvolved father, or abusive father may not be missed
much. It still affects kids.
But it sounded like this little boy was deeply affected by his father's
absences, so I was specifically addressing her situation.
I know for me, it would have been devastating to have my Mom and Dad divorced.
I think for most it's very traumatic.
Ren