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> So that's why I had to repeatedly
> explain it to him.
>

But it IS a very schoolish thing, and if you didn't want him to do it, not
mentioning it would've been the way to go.

Sandra


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Nanci K.

> But it IS a very schoolish thing, and if you didn't want him to do
>it, not mentioning it would've been the way to go.
> Sandra


Then I would have felt I was manipulating his choices by not
presenting to him any options that 'I' thought too schooly. I tell
the boys about all kinds of things which they show interest in or
not. Do you limit what you tell your kids about by what you want them
to do, or let them look at all the options or information and make
their own choices?

Nanci K.

Pam Sorooshian

You CANNOT tell them about all options. Impossible.

So - that was an option you chose to tell him about. There are an
infinite number of other things you didn't tell him about.

-pam


On Jun 29, 2005, at 5:33 PM, Nanci K. wrote:

> Do you limit what you tell your kids about by what you want them
> to do, or let them look at all the options or information and make
> their own choices?