Ren

"A man who hugged his daughter nastily but never pressed to the point of full
blown molestation"

I'm sorry, but genital fondling IS full blown molestation.
Even if he hadn't done that, the fact that he thinks spanking and punishing his grandchild are ok, would make me keep my child AWAY from this man.

Ren

"There is no way to
peace. Peace is the way."
~Quaker saying