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In a message dated 1/30/2003 3:48:20 AM Eastern Standard Time,
[email protected] writes:

> >I worry about this for Julian. For those of you who don't know, he has
> three
> >parents: Me (biological mother), my partner Beth, and his father, Perry.
> We
> >have an excellent relationship with Perry, but the truth is, that if
> >something happened to me, whatever Julian needed or Beth wanted, Perry
> could
> >call all the shots. I THINK he would want to do what's best for Julian,
> >including NOT sending him to school, but I am not certain. It's scary. And
> >Julian HAS thought about it, and has talked about it.
>
> Would it help for him to talk about his worries with Perry?
> Tia
>
He tends not to find talking to Perry useful. Perry means well, but sometimes
does not respond as well as he could, and Julian does not like talking about
his feelings very much. I think the best thing to do would have me talk to
Perry when he's in a good mood.

Kathryn


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