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In a message dated 11/1/2002 2:13:34 PM Eastern Standard Time,
[email protected] writes:
> When I have told him this he just says he works and there fore he shouldn't
> have to help at all.
>

I kind of look at it that way myself. Not that Ben is totally unhelpful. But
I'd prefer to do the house/yardwork rather than pull in the big bucks by
working somewhere else. I have to remind myself of that sometimes. His
working fultime and overtime enables me to stay home and enjoy my children
and go on long trips (without him), and live this "life of luxury"! <G>

I try NOT to ask Ben to do things that I am quite capable of---but at the
same time, he's happy to do what I ask if he can.

~Kelly


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