On Feb 4 it went live.
On Feb 8 I received the following email from the publisher
"Are you and Dayna Martin cooperating on your unschooling conferences by any chance?
She recently asked us to be a media sponsor for her Life Rocks Unschooling Conference. And the ad she has sent (attached) is extremely close to yours in design. If you two are working together, that’s great; if not, we won’t be running her ad in this form. Thought I’d check with you before [co-worker] got back to her!"