Christian groups / Stressed out little boy
Libby
Hello Everyone
First I would like to say that I have not found a great feeling of
support from the group that I belong to, but I haven't found one that
are not christian yet, so I make due. They do offer things to our
family that would be hard to find (class and different play groups
ect.) Although once they find out that we don't go to church two
things happen. First we are hounded to go, and when that dosen't work
we get the silent treatment (nice people). I have NO problem with
church OR people who go but, I have found through the years that they
are the one's who have the problem with me not going.O WELL!
Second My oldest son was given the game perfection for his birthday.
I have never seen a game that makes him so nuts he can't see the
pieces for the timer, and then he just starts to cry. When he went to
kindergarden this was a big problem for his Timed tests or doing
thing by the clock you could just see him fall apart. We have put the
game away for now. But it still worries me. He has a uncle that is
the some way he can not see the putting green on the golf course for
the water in front and of corce there goes his ball. I know there is
nothing to do for him he needs to work this out for himself. but I
needed to get this of my chest.
Thanks for listening Libby
First I would like to say that I have not found a great feeling of
support from the group that I belong to, but I haven't found one that
are not christian yet, so I make due. They do offer things to our
family that would be hard to find (class and different play groups
ect.) Although once they find out that we don't go to church two
things happen. First we are hounded to go, and when that dosen't work
we get the silent treatment (nice people). I have NO problem with
church OR people who go but, I have found through the years that they
are the one's who have the problem with me not going.O WELL!
Second My oldest son was given the game perfection for his birthday.
I have never seen a game that makes him so nuts he can't see the
pieces for the timer, and then he just starts to cry. When he went to
kindergarden this was a big problem for his Timed tests or doing
thing by the clock you could just see him fall apart. We have put the
game away for now. But it still worries me. He has a uncle that is
the some way he can not see the putting green on the golf course for
the water in front and of corce there goes his ball. I know there is
nothing to do for him he needs to work this out for himself. but I
needed to get this of my chest.
Thanks for listening Libby
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In a message dated 5/5/04 9:36:44 PM, sunshinemommy2001@... writes:
<< I know there is
nothing to do for him he needs to work this out for himself. >>
That's not so.
You can help him with the game and keep it put up between times so when he IS
old enough to use it on his own he still has the parts.
Kids can't easily just learn to get over frustration. They need help, and
distraction, and love.
Sandra
<< I know there is
nothing to do for him he needs to work this out for himself. >>
That's not so.
You can help him with the game and keep it put up between times so when he IS
old enough to use it on his own he still has the parts.
Kids can't easily just learn to get over frustration. They need help, and
distraction, and love.
Sandra
Elizabeth Fleming
Hi We do still have the game and I have asked him
every now and then if he wants to play and he says
when I'm older. I did try to help him play when we
first got the game and he would get mad and say he
can do it. I didn't want to make the situation any
more stressful so I backed off. He's very independent.
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every now and then if he wants to play and he says
when I'm older. I did try to help him play when we
first got the game and he would get mad and say he
can do it. I didn't want to make the situation any
more stressful so I backed off. He's very independent.
--- SandraDodd@... wrote:
>__________________________________
> In a message dated 5/5/04 9:36:44 PM,
> sunshinemommy2001@... writes:
>
> << I know there is
>
> nothing to do for him he needs to work this out for
> himself. >>
>
> That's not so.
>
> You can help him with the game and keep it put up
> between times so when he IS
> old enough to use it on his own he still has the
> parts.
>
> Kids can't easily just learn to get over
> frustration. They need help, and
> distraction, and love.
>
> Sandra
>
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