To Janice re: making assumptions
Paula Sjogerman
I'm not going to flame you, but I will point out how your reply to my post
had nothing to do with what I actually said (or think, or feel).
to hear a "smug attitude?" I said not one word about my own feelings about
milk - except that one could correctly deduce that I took the milk-free
suggestions seriously since I am the one who brought them up with Zoe.
Perhaps you misread my " gotta love those teens" as me agreeing with her
response. If so, you really made a leap and hammered me for your own
mistake.
I think her feelings were about not wanting to discuss her skin problems.
She's embarrassed.
for the occasional Breyer's Ice Cream).
whoa, read again, no dismissal in my post (except by Zoe). Certainly nothing
to justify the above intense - and hurtful - words about open-mindedness and
intelligence.
Paula
had nothing to do with what I actually said (or think, or feel).
> As much as I know I'll get flamed -My amused posting of Zoe's response contained no "dismissal." What led you
> II think this post is decidedly hurtful. There are those of us who have
> researched and questioned; we have looked at the reports; we have shared these
> with you.
>
> So - in the face of that - your daughter says "That's the stupidest thing I've
> ever heard." "You are hurting my feelings talking about this." (How is that
> possibly hurting her feelings?" ) Then with a seemimngly very smug attitude
> you dismiss it!! That's the weakest thing I've read all month.
to hear a "smug attitude?" I said not one word about my own feelings about
milk - except that one could correctly deduce that I took the milk-free
suggestions seriously since I am the one who brought them up with Zoe.
Perhaps you misread my " gotta love those teens" as me agreeing with her
response. If so, you really made a leap and hammered me for your own
mistake.
>You are hurting my feelings talking about this." (How is that possiblyhurting her feelings?" )
I think her feelings were about not wanting to discuss her skin problems.
She's embarrassed.
> Whether we like it or not -I agree with you. The dairy products in my house are all organic. (Except
> Dairy products are filled with chemicals and poisons.
for the occasional Breyer's Ice Cream).
> Rather than look into what is being said here.....it's dismissed.Okay, I get it, you feel strongly about this issue, but once again I say,
>
> Under what definition of open-minded is that?
> Under what definition of intelligent is that?
>
whoa, read again, no dismissal in my post (except by Zoe). Certainly nothing
to justify the above intense - and hurtful - words about open-mindedness and
intelligence.
> Refusing to examine what is the dairy industry...and what it does to us......It's not, but I'm not quite sure how you know me well enough to know that.
> is just plain foolish.
>
> That's not like you.
Paula