Re: The Sex Talks
[email protected]
In a message dated 6/2/2003 11:43:24 AM Eastern Standard Time,
[email protected] writes:
he was younger, took place in the car. We could chat but there didn't need to
be a lot of eye contact, which was easier on both of us. I think particularly
of a conversation about wet dreams (an old boyfriend told me once when he had
his first he was terrified. He had cool, liberal parents, but it never occurred
to them to warn him. So I wanted to be sure to talk to Juls well before).
There was a great Malcolm in the Middle where Lois was concerned Malcolm
might be having or thinking about having sex. She sets up this long car ride, then
informs him they're going to talk about sex. She tells him she has no idea
what he's going to need to know, so she's just going to tell him everything. He
is horrified.
She starts talking about her own experiences and feelings, and there are
scenes of her stopping the car so he can get out and throw up, then getting back
in and saying, "Okay," etc. Finally they arrive home and pull into the
driveway. They are so engaged in conversation, back and forth, that they just sit in
the car and continue to talk.
Kathryn
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[email protected] writes:
> Haleigh and I were talking in the car one day, just the two of us and sheMost of the coinversations Julian and I have had about sex, especially when
> brought him up. She was saying something about one of the camp counselors
> calling him her boyfriend and that lead into a discussion about kissing,
> holding hands, sex, etc. She started to get really uncomfortable so I
> lightened the subject up with a lot of humor and she felt more relaxed so we
>
> kept talking. At one point we were discussing them sleeping alone in the
> shed together and I talked to her about boys, in general, putting the moves
> on girls when they aren't ready and how things can get out of hand so fast
> that you don't even *want* to say no anymore. I shared some of my past
> experiences with her and regrets and mistakes I made. We were laughing
> lightly and really having a great bonding moment. Then I pop off and say
> something along the lines of 'hormones and penises make boys crazy' and I
> thought she was going to fall out of the car! She died laughing and I made
> a quick recover that there are girls out there like that too and went on to
> explain. She was totally and completely shocked that I said that. Her face
>
> was bright red and she kept saying MOOOUUUUMMMM!!!!! It was so funny! LOL
>
he was younger, took place in the car. We could chat but there didn't need to
be a lot of eye contact, which was easier on both of us. I think particularly
of a conversation about wet dreams (an old boyfriend told me once when he had
his first he was terrified. He had cool, liberal parents, but it never occurred
to them to warn him. So I wanted to be sure to talk to Juls well before).
There was a great Malcolm in the Middle where Lois was concerned Malcolm
might be having or thinking about having sex. She sets up this long car ride, then
informs him they're going to talk about sex. She tells him she has no idea
what he's going to need to know, so she's just going to tell him everything. He
is horrified.
She starts talking about her own experiences and feelings, and there are
scenes of her stopping the car so he can get out and throw up, then getting back
in and saying, "Okay," etc. Finally they arrive home and pull into the
driveway. They are so engaged in conversation, back and forth, that they just sit in
the car and continue to talk.
Kathryn
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