Re: [Unschooling-dotcom] Cuss Words
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We say, "There are NO bad words." There may be times when some words are
inappropriate. My in-laws just can't figure this out---but then they'll wash their
kids' mouths out with soap for saying "stupid"!
My nephew (12ish?) had his mouth washed out for something (can't remember
which word)---his mom was FURIOUS. She told him to "think" about it and tell her
where he heard it.
From HER!
I asked whether she washed her own mouth out! She didn't *get* it!
My boys are WELCOME to use whatever language they're comfortable with. They
both learned quickly when it's acceptable---and don't hide it. They're just
*aware*.
~Kelly, the foul-mouthed---but generally acceptable
In a message dated 5/26/2003 10:02:18 AM Eastern Daylight Time,
treegoddess@... writes:
inappropriate. My in-laws just can't figure this out---but then they'll wash their
kids' mouths out with soap for saying "stupid"!
My nephew (12ish?) had his mouth washed out for something (can't remember
which word)---his mom was FURIOUS. She told him to "think" about it and tell her
where he heard it.
From HER!
I asked whether she washed her own mouth out! She didn't *get* it!
My boys are WELCOME to use whatever language they're comfortable with. They
both learned quickly when it's acceptable---and don't hide it. They're just
*aware*.
~Kelly, the foul-mouthed---but generally acceptable
In a message dated 5/26/2003 10:02:18 AM Eastern Daylight Time,
treegoddess@... writes:
> We are really relaxed about "cuss" words here. The only stipulation we[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
> have is that they shouldn't be used
> for name calling (any more than it's ok to call each other stupid,
> dummy, etc.). Yesterday we were at my
> sister's and my 5yo niece came running in to tell me that my 4yo said
> "ass". I asked her if he called her an
> ass and she said no and that he fell off the end of the slide and bumped
> it. I told her that it was ok and she
> gave me an amazed, puzzled look. I let her know that her Uncle and I
> let the him say that and she was like, "Wow."
>
> Later on I was talking to my sister and cracking up over my niece's
> amazement. My sister told me that her DD
> didn't head straight back outside, but made a beeline to her and dreamy
> like asked, "Mama, can I say bad words
> too?" LOL Sis told her no.... which is ironic (is that the right
> word?) because I don't know anyone who swears
> more than my sister.
>
> TreeGoddess
>