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We did a short ceremony, just Julian, Beth, and me, when Julian reached
puberty. We shared some of our wishes for him, ate cake, made him a dreamcatcher
together, and lit some candles. It wasn't too much, which would have embarassed
him.

I had assumed I'd do something with a daughter, but hadn't thought about
having a son. Then I realized it was silly, and we asked him what he thought. The
interesting thing is, that although he is close to his father and sees him
every day, Julian did not want him to be involved--just his lesbian moms.

Kathryn


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