Paula Sjogerman

on 1/16/03 5:13 PM, [email protected] at
[email protected] wrote:

> I have thought about talking to her, but I am worried that if I talk to her
> she will think that we are complaining. I don't want to be seen as a
> complainer, and I don't want my daughter to think that we can always
> complain about things and get them changed. Do you know what I am saying?
> I have also thought about emailing the director, and starting out by saying
> that I don't want her to just give my daughter the part, but do want to know
> what we could have done differently.

It's all in the way you say it. If you do the email the way you described, I
don't think it would be perceived as complaining. You ARE trying to get
information and feedback, not a different part, so you are on solid ground.

JMHO,
Paula

Robyn Coburn

> I have thought about talking to her, but I am worried that if I talk
to her
> she will think that we are complaining. I don't want to be seen as a
> complainer, and I don't want my daughter to think that we can always
> complain about things and get them changed
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Does your daughter **want** you to talk to the director? Or does she
just need you to continue to commiserate and validate her (ie
daughter's) feelings?



Robyn Coburn











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