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In a message dated 1/9/03 6:09:48 PM Eastern Standard Time,
mummyone24@... writes:

> And more of that will make a difference as long as you don't lose patience
> and keep reminding yourself not to say what you would usually say. He
> didn't
> want to pump the gas probably because you were employing a tactic to
> actually make him pump the gas. I do for you so now you have to do for me.
> After him eventually seeing that you do for him without expecting anything
> in return, he'll get why people do nice things for other people. Then he'll
>
> get it do because he wants to, not cause he feels like he has to.
>
> Mary B
>

Yeah, Mary, I agree, and I am seeing more and more how I do use some "tatics"
to get my kids to comply with my requests. Thats got to be an improvement
:-)

Teresa


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