silencing voices
[email protected]
In a message dated 12/16/02 9:50:24 AM Central Standard Time,
[email protected] writes:
<< I am not talking about silencing voices. Please share. I talking about
the way in which some/a few have expressed themselves. Again, you are
determining what others "need" to hear. Would you do that to an unschooling
child and wouldyou do that to a significant other? >>
Yes, you are talking about silencing voices.
When you say a poster shouldn't post in the style they've written with for
years and years, that is arrogant.
People post in their style. It may not be what you like to hear, but others
do.
Sandra's voice may upset some people, but others get a LOT from her. And
you're asking her to change her style of posting?
This, as mentioned before, is an unshcooling discussion list.
I would assume that anyone coming here wants to discuss ideas and
philosophies.
That makes it a whole different playing field than what I'm on with my dh and
children.
One would assume that on a discussion list, there is a level of maturity that
makes difficult discussion possible. If my children voluntarily came to this
list, I would let them know up front what it's about and then they better be
able to handle it.
If not, they could leave.
No one is making anyone be here.
It's kind of rude to come in a bit late to a party and then yell that you
don't like the way it's being run.
Ren
"Knowledge will not always take the place of simple observation."
~Arnold Lobel
Unschooling support at pensacolaunschoolers.com
[email protected] writes:
<< I am not talking about silencing voices. Please share. I talking about
the way in which some/a few have expressed themselves. Again, you are
determining what others "need" to hear. Would you do that to an unschooling
child and wouldyou do that to a significant other? >>
Yes, you are talking about silencing voices.
When you say a poster shouldn't post in the style they've written with for
years and years, that is arrogant.
People post in their style. It may not be what you like to hear, but others
do.
Sandra's voice may upset some people, but others get a LOT from her. And
you're asking her to change her style of posting?
This, as mentioned before, is an unshcooling discussion list.
I would assume that anyone coming here wants to discuss ideas and
philosophies.
That makes it a whole different playing field than what I'm on with my dh and
children.
One would assume that on a discussion list, there is a level of maturity that
makes difficult discussion possible. If my children voluntarily came to this
list, I would let them know up front what it's about and then they better be
able to handle it.
If not, they could leave.
No one is making anyone be here.
It's kind of rude to come in a bit late to a party and then yell that you
don't like the way it's being run.
Ren
"Knowledge will not always take the place of simple observation."
~Arnold Lobel
Unschooling support at pensacolaunschoolers.com
[email protected]
In a message dated 12/16/02 11:20:25 AM Eastern Standard Time,
starsuncloud@... writes:
Geez, I thought the girls in 7th grade were bad
Teresa
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starsuncloud@... writes:
> It's kind of rude to come in a bit late to a party and then yell that youAnother typical clique attitude.
> don't like the way it's being run.
>
Geez, I thought the girls in 7th grade were bad
Teresa
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Kelli Traaseth
This is not a clique!!!!!
Others have stopped with the name calling Teresa, how about you now?
Kelli
This is a group of people who post comments on a similar topic!!
grlynbl@... wrote:In a message dated 12/16/02 11:20:25 AM Eastern Standard Time,
starsuncloud@... writes:
Geez, I thought the girls in 7th grade were bad
Teresa
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Others have stopped with the name calling Teresa, how about you now?
Kelli
This is a group of people who post comments on a similar topic!!
grlynbl@... wrote:In a message dated 12/16/02 11:20:25 AM Eastern Standard Time,
starsuncloud@... writes:
> It's kind of rude to come in a bit late to a party and then yell that youAnother typical clique attitude.
> don't like the way it's being run.
>
Geez, I thought the girls in 7th grade were bad
Teresa
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Fetteroll
The next mean thing you read, *don't* reply.
Let's put an end to this right now.
The peace of the forum rests on how you respond. It's not held hostage by
"the other side". It's *your* responsiblity.
Let's get back to discussing unschooling.
Joyce
Unschooling-dotcom moderator
Let's put an end to this right now.
The peace of the forum rests on how you respond. It's not held hostage by
"the other side". It's *your* responsiblity.
Let's get back to discussing unschooling.
Joyce
Unschooling-dotcom moderator
[email protected]
In a message dated 12/16/2002 11:18:57 AM Eastern Standard Time,
starsuncloud@... writes:
starsuncloud@... writes:
> In a message dated 12/16/02 9:50:24 AM Central Standard Time,[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
> [email protected] writes:
>
> << I am not talking about silencing voices. Please share. I talking
> about
> the way in which some/a few have expressed themselves. Again, you are
> determining what others "need" to hear. Would you do that to an
> unschooling
> child and wouldyou do that to a significant other? >>
>
> Yes, you are talking about silencing voices.
> When you say a poster shouldn't post in the style they've written with for
> years and years, that is arrogant.
> People post in their style. It may not be what you like to hear, but others
>
> do.
> Sandra's voice may upset some people, but others get a LOT from her. And
> you're asking her to change her style of posting?
> This, as mentioned before, is an unshcooling discussion list.
> I would assume that anyone coming here wants to discuss ideas and
> philosophies.
> That makes it a whole different playing field than what I'm on with my dh
> and
> children.
> One would assume that on a discussion list, there is a level of maturity
> that
> makes difficult discussion possible. If my children voluntarily came to
> this
> list, I would let them know up front what it's about and then they better
> be
> able to handle it.
> If not, they could leave.
> No one is making anyone be here.
> It's kind of rude to come in a bit late to a party and then yell that you
> don't like the way it's being run.
>
> Ren
[email protected]
In a message dated 12/16/02 1:44:42 PM Central Standard Time,
[email protected] writes:
<< Geez, I thought the girls in 7th grade were bad >>
It's called an analogy.
If you hate it here SO much, why stay?
If I felt the way you do about a group, I certainly wouldn't spend all my
time screaming at everyone on it....seems so unproductive when we could be
talking about unschooling.
Ren
"Knowledge will not always take the place of simple observation."
~Arnold Lobel
Unschooling support at pensacolaunschoolers.com
[email protected] writes:
<< Geez, I thought the girls in 7th grade were bad >>
It's called an analogy.
If you hate it here SO much, why stay?
If I felt the way you do about a group, I certainly wouldn't spend all my
time screaming at everyone on it....seems so unproductive when we could be
talking about unschooling.
Ren
"Knowledge will not always take the place of simple observation."
~Arnold Lobel
Unschooling support at pensacolaunschoolers.com