Carolyn Talarr

Sheesh! Sorry--I've got a huge headache--I'm sure I'm missing lots of
ickiness--

>Something along the ideas of an intervention is what I'm thinking this
>unhappy friend was hoping to accomplish.

I know from friends
>who are HIV positive, just to give an example, that suddenly needing to
become spokespeople for HIV to their former friends who desert them when
they find
>out is really not worth the energy.
>
>But your daughter may choose differently.
>
What actions she chooses to
>take on the basis of that interpretation are up to her

As you were...:)
Carolyn