Re: [Unschooling-dotcom] Digest Number 1782
Julie Stauffer
<<If your child wants to shoot up heroin>>
Exactly how am I supposed to stop him? If I were to try to control it, it
would simply damage our relationship and he would shoot up as soon as he was
out of my sight.
If he wanted help, I wouldn't force hospitalization either. I worked too
much rehab to waste my money trying to force someone to get clean the way I
say.
There is a difference between telling someone you are concerned about them,
trying to find out what is bothering them, doing what you can to help....and
imposing your will on them.
Julie
Exactly how am I supposed to stop him? If I were to try to control it, it
would simply damage our relationship and he would shoot up as soon as he was
out of my sight.
If he wanted help, I wouldn't force hospitalization either. I worked too
much rehab to waste my money trying to force someone to get clean the way I
say.
There is a difference between telling someone you are concerned about them,
trying to find out what is bothering them, doing what you can to help....and
imposing your will on them.
Julie
Julie Stauffer
<<so mired in preconceived notions from 5 months ago>>
Bridget,
Notice that I am addressing you by name because in THIS post I am actually
talking about you. In my previous post which you copied and responded to, I
did not address you by name and was therefore not talking about you. The
post to which you referred was a general post. For future reference please
note that I am many things but not a coward who must hide personal attacks
in some kind of vague wording. If I have a problem with something you said
and want to address it, I will address you in a very straightforward manner.
Julie
Bridget,
Notice that I am addressing you by name because in THIS post I am actually
talking about you. In my previous post which you copied and responded to, I
did not address you by name and was therefore not talking about you. The
post to which you referred was a general post. For future reference please
note that I am many things but not a coward who must hide personal attacks
in some kind of vague wording. If I have a problem with something you said
and want to address it, I will address you in a very straightforward manner.
Julie