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karen:
i think our partners really would understand if they compare it to ways they
get their own needs met each day and week, etc. mine does when we talk about
it. after that, is just remembering to be respectful of each others needs and
supportive, too. it makes each of us then in turn be quite willing to serve
the other when we feel appreciated respected and supported. in other words
it turns out better in the end for our own needs being met when we try to
support the other WHILE the respect is equally held. (if it is not, then we
will be used up.)
whew!
gotta quit for now.
erin