Re: [Unschooling-dotcom] new to this
Vicki A. Dennis
If you are already experiencing symptoms of stresss and if the kids want to
homeschool AND since you and they are experienced , why wait?
I had my older son in public school at his request in middle school. BIG
MISTAKE. When he was ready to leave, I thought he should "follow through on
commitments " or some such <gg>>. Fortunately I eventually came to my
seenses and took him out in middle of semester but not before further damage
had been inflicted.
It is certainly your choice but my vote would be "Just do it-----now"
Vicki
homeschool AND since you and they are experienced , why wait?
I had my older son in public school at his request in middle school. BIG
MISTAKE. When he was ready to leave, I thought he should "follow through on
commitments " or some such <gg>>. Fortunately I eventually came to my
seenses and took him out in middle of semester but not before further damage
had been inflicted.
It is certainly your choice but my vote would be "Just do it-----now"
Vicki
----- Original Message -----
From: <walton@...>
To: <[email protected]>
Sent: Monday, April 16, 2001 12:36 PM
Subject: [Unschooling-dotcom] new to this
s gradually,
> rather than just abruptly. I would love to hear all of your
> opinions, suggestions and comments. I can't tell you how deeply
> public school has affected every aspect of our family life.Not as
> close, etc. thank you for letting me ramble....
> Annette
>
[email protected]
Hi everyone. Just a quick note to introduce myself and my family. My
name is Annette, I live in Indiana with my dh of 14 years, and our
three children ages 11, 9 1/2, and 8. Also have two housecats, 2
outdoor angora rabbits, and a white dove. I homeschooled my children
for 3 years, then due to emotional and physical problems *long
story*grin** thought it would be okay to put them into public school.
Boy, was I wrong! (but i'm sure you all know that.*grin)
I will be taking them out of public school at the end of this
year. My 11 year old (boy) is showing definate signs of stress, and
developing an attitude that I don't understand. *angry, says mean
things to siblings and myself, etc. They all want to come home, but
I am reluctant to just "pull them out". Don't want to rock the
boat" too much, was wondering if it is better to do this gradually,
rather than just abruptly. I would love to hear all of your
opinions, suggestions and comments. I can't tell you how deeply
public school has affected every aspect of our family life.Not as
close, etc. thank you for letting me ramble....
Annette
name is Annette, I live in Indiana with my dh of 14 years, and our
three children ages 11, 9 1/2, and 8. Also have two housecats, 2
outdoor angora rabbits, and a white dove. I homeschooled my children
for 3 years, then due to emotional and physical problems *long
story*grin** thought it would be okay to put them into public school.
Boy, was I wrong! (but i'm sure you all know that.*grin)
I will be taking them out of public school at the end of this
year. My 11 year old (boy) is showing definate signs of stress, and
developing an attitude that I don't understand. *angry, says mean
things to siblings and myself, etc. They all want to come home, but
I am reluctant to just "pull them out". Don't want to rock the
boat" too much, was wondering if it is better to do this gradually,
rather than just abruptly. I would love to hear all of your
opinions, suggestions and comments. I can't tell you how deeply
public school has affected every aspect of our family life.Not as
close, etc. thank you for letting me ramble....
Annette
Juli
Darn, I accidentally deleted that message from the
unschooler in college when I meant to click reply.
Anyway, I want to ask what the name of your college
is?You said you do independent study there. Is it St.
John's college? Juli
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In a message dated 04/16/2001 5:37:18 PM !!!First Boot!!!,
walton@... writes:
How would you gradually pull them out? One at a time -- part-time . . .?
The feeling around here in the schoolies I know is that the year is pretty
much over (standardized testing is over for the year) so maybe this would
actually be a good transition time in your community.
Good luck.
Nance
walton@... writes:
They all want to come home, but
I am reluctant to just "pull them out". Don't want to rock the
boat" too much, was wondering if it is better to do this gradually,
rather than just abruptly.
How would you gradually pull them out? One at a time -- part-time . . .?
The feeling around here in the schoolies I know is that the year is pretty
much over (standardized testing is over for the year) so maybe this would
actually be a good transition time in your community.
Good luck.
Nance
[email protected]
In a message dated 4/16/01 11:37:13 AM, walton@... writes:
<< I will be taking them out of public school at the end of this
year. My 11 year old (boy) is showing definate signs of stress, and
developing an attitude that I don't understand. >>
You could take them out at the end of today, if you want. There's nothing
magical going to happen by leaving them in til the end of the year. Just
more stress and bad attitude.
<< They all want to come home, but
I am reluctant to just "pull them out". Don't want to rock the
boat" too much, was wondering if it is better to do this gradually,
rather than just abruptly. >>
The boat is already being rocked. Dock it. Every day has to be undone
later. Don't add one more hour of garbage to their memories.
<< I can't tell you how deeply
public school has affected every aspect of our family life.Not as
close, etc.>>
You don't even have to wait until the end of today. You could log off, drive
to the school, and get them.
Sandra
<< I will be taking them out of public school at the end of this
year. My 11 year old (boy) is showing definate signs of stress, and
developing an attitude that I don't understand. >>
You could take them out at the end of today, if you want. There's nothing
magical going to happen by leaving them in til the end of the year. Just
more stress and bad attitude.
<< They all want to come home, but
I am reluctant to just "pull them out". Don't want to rock the
boat" too much, was wondering if it is better to do this gradually,
rather than just abruptly. >>
The boat is already being rocked. Dock it. Every day has to be undone
later. Don't add one more hour of garbage to their memories.
<< I can't tell you how deeply
public school has affected every aspect of our family life.Not as
close, etc.>>
You don't even have to wait until the end of today. You could log off, drive
to the school, and get them.
Sandra
Nancy from MI
Why wait? Pull them out now. You'll be glad you did! I took my
daughters out in January. I am so glad I didn't wait until next year!
If your kids are stressed and want to come home now, go for it, I say!
daughters out in January. I am so glad I didn't wait until next year!
If your kids are stressed and want to come home now, go for it, I say!
--- In Unschooling-dotcom@y..., walton@r... wrote:
> Hi everyone. Just a quick note to introduce myself and my family.
My
> name is Annette, I live in Indiana with my dh of 14 years, and our
> three children ages 11, 9 1/2, and 8. Also have two housecats, 2
> outdoor angora rabbits, and a white dove. I homeschooled my
children
> for 3 years, then due to emotional and physical problems *long
> story*grin** thought it would be okay to put them into public
school.
> Boy, was I wrong! (but i'm sure you all know that.*grin)
> I will be taking them out of public school at the end of this
> year. My 11 year old (boy) is showing definate signs of stress,
and
> developing an attitude that I don't understand. *angry, says mean
> things to siblings and myself, etc. They all want to come home, but
> I am reluctant to just "pull them out". Don't want to rock the
> boat" too much, was wondering if it is better to do this gradually,
> rather than just abruptly. I would love to hear all of your
> opinions, suggestions and comments. I can't tell you how deeply
> public school has affected every aspect of our family life.Not as
> close, etc. thank you for letting me ramble....
> Annette
[email protected]
> I will be taking them out of public school at the end of thisWhy wait? NOW sounds like a good time. Right *NOW* this very minute
> year.
Mariannen
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Hi Annette - I live in Indiana, too - Greenwood. Where are you?
I replied to your post before, but my computer messed up, so I don't
think it got sent. In any case, welcome to the list. I see that
other people replied, too (but I haven't got that far, yet). The
longer your kids are in school, the longer it will take to overcome
the problems that come with schooling. But only you know what's best
for you.
Melanie in Indiana
I replied to your post before, but my computer messed up, so I don't
think it got sent. In any case, welcome to the list. I see that
other people replied, too (but I haven't got that far, yet). The
longer your kids are in school, the longer it will take to overcome
the problems that come with schooling. But only you know what's best
for you.
Melanie in Indiana
scrunchy
Why wait ? I would do it now. My hunch is that you will have some very
surprised children if you do.
Norma
surprised children if you do.
Norma
Tami Labig-Duquette
Hi Annette,
I'm in Indiana too :) I pulled mine out the beginning of this year, IN has
very east standards to meet, attendance is all.
We circle days on the calendar. My kids are so much happier, although they
do miss the social interaction, we have then in other things to help out
with that! I am Jay County, where are you?
Tami
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I'm in Indiana too :) I pulled mine out the beginning of this year, IN has
very east standards to meet, attendance is all.
We circle days on the calendar. My kids are so much happier, although they
do miss the social interaction, we have then in other things to help out
with that! I am Jay County, where are you?
Tami
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>To: [email protected]
>Subject: [Unschooling-dotcom] new to this
>Date: Mon, 16 Apr 2001 17:36:20 -0000
>
>Hi everyone. Just a quick note to introduce myself and my family. My
>name is Annette, I live in Indiana with my dh of 14 years, and our
>three children ages 11, 9 1/2, and 8. Also have two housecats, 2
>outdoor angora rabbits, and a white dove. I homeschooled my children
>for 3 years, then due to emotional and physical problems *long
>story*grin** thought it would be okay to put them into public school.
>Boy, was I wrong! (but i'm sure you all know that.*grin)
> I will be taking them out of public school at the end of this
>year. My 11 year old (boy) is showing definate signs of stress, and
>developing an attitude that I don't understand. *angry, says mean
>things to siblings and myself, etc. They all want to come home, but
>I am reluctant to just "pull them out". Don't want to rock the
>boat" too much, was wondering if it is better to do this gradually,
>rather than just abruptly. I would love to hear all of your
>opinions, suggestions and comments. I can't tell you how deeply
>public school has affected every aspect of our family life.Not as
>close, etc. thank you for letting me ramble....
>Annette
>
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Vaughnde Edwards
I'd say don't wait until the end of the school year. Pull
them out now. I pulled mine out 8-9 weeks ago and she is a much happier kid.
Still de-schooling. The attitude of your son will improve over time the sooner
you get him out the better.
-----Original Message-----Hi everyone. Just a quick note to introduce myself and my family. My
From: walton@... <walton@...>
To: [email protected] <[email protected]>
Date: Monday, April 16, 2001 11:36 AM
Subject: [Unschooling-dotcom] new to this
name is Annette, I live in Indiana with my dh of 14 years, and our
three children ages 11, 9 1/2, and 8. Also have two housecats, 2
outdoor angora rabbits, and a white dove. I homeschooled my children
for 3 years, then due to emotional and physical problems *long
story*grin** thought it would be okay to put them into public school.
Boy, was I wrong! (but i'm sure you all know that.*grin)
I will be taking them out of public school at the end of this
year. My 11 year old (boy) is showing definate signs of stress, and
developing an attitude that I don't understand. *angry, says mean
things to siblings and myself, etc. They all want to come home, but
I am reluctant to just "pull them out". Don't want to rock the
boat" too much, was wondering if it is better to do this gradually,
rather than just abruptly. I would love to hear all of your
opinions, suggestions and comments. I can't tell you how deeply
public school has affected every aspect of our family life.Not as
close, etc. thank you for letting me ramble....
Annette
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I can really identify with the issues you
are dealing with. We have six children, 16,14,10,9,3 and 2. We homeschooled for
two years before moving from Massachusetts to Tennessee in the fall of '99. Last
year thw kids went to public school, because of moving twice. Once to a rental
house then finally to our home. The 9 year old had never gone to public
school and although he did well academically, he had some problems with
controlling teachers threatening him when there was no need. All they had to do
was ask him. We are homeschooling again this year except for the 14 year old by
his choice. Most of my behavior problems come from this child, and I don't think
it is age related. He brings home many cruel jokes and behaviors. How supportive
is your local school district towards homeschoolers? Are you involved with a
local home schooling group? Maybe you could ask someone there about it? If the
children are asking to come home, it may be best to take them out now. I
don't understand how you could take them out gradually, or do you mean plan it
out then take them out? What specifically do you fear happening if you take
them out now and are they realistic fears? Are you planning on unschooling when
you do take them out? Are your concerns curicculum or recordkeeping? Are you
clear on your states laws? I know lots of questions when you want answers, but
clarification of your particular concerns will help you to address them.
Personally I would take them out as soon as you can.
Johanna
Life is the ultimate learning experience!----- Original Message -----From: walton@...Sent: Monday, April 16, 2001 12:36 PMSubject: [Unschooling-dotcom] new to thisHi everyone. Just a quick note to introduce myself and my family. My
name is Annette, I live in Indiana with my dh of 14 years, and our
three children ages 11, 9 1/2, and 8. Also have two housecats, 2
outdoor angora rabbits, and a white dove. I homeschooled my children
for 3 years, then due to emotional and physical problems *long
story*grin** thought it would be okay to put them into public school.
Boy, was I wrong! (but i'm sure you all know that.*grin)
I will be taking them out of public school at the end of this
year. My 11 year old (boy) is showing definate signs of stress, and
developing an attitude that I don't understand. *angry, says mean
things to siblings and myself, etc. They all want to come home, but
I am reluctant to just "pull them out". Don't want to rock the
boat" too much, was wondering if it is better to do this gradually,
rather than just abruptly. I would love to hear all of your
opinions, suggestions and comments. I can't tell you how deeply
public school has affected every aspect of our family life.Not as
close, etc. thank you for letting me ramble....
Annette
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