Punished by Rewards.. [was nip]
Sue
Hey Dawn,
I don't know why, but I have the strangest feeling that you are reading
"Punished By Rewards". What do you think of it?
Sue
From: dawn <dawn@...>
I don't know why, but I have the strangest feeling that you are reading
"Punished By Rewards". What do you think of it?
Sue
From: dawn <dawn@...>
> dawn h-s
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> Some who support more coercive strategies assume that children will run
> wild if they are not controlled. However, the children for whom this is
> true typically turn out to be those accustomed to being controlled--those
> who are not trusted, given explanations, encouraged to think for
> themselves, helped to develop and internalize good values, and so
> on. Control breeds the need for more control, which is then used to
> justify the use of control.
>
> ---Alfie Kohn, Punished by Rewards, p. 33.
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