nrskay

Lindsay & Dan:

I'm truly sorry for your loss. You sound like wonderful people.
Sixteen years ago I lost my parents in a terrible accident. I
understand their pain. Their fears as you mentioned are
understandable.

If one of you could stay home and unschool them, that would be
wonderful. They need to be loved, have a feeling of security and just
be together. Sending them to boarding school would be tragic and very
destructive.

You have legal custody of them, do what you feel is best in your own
hearts. The rest of the family doesn't have the right to interfere.
You both know what they need - lots of love and TLC at home.

Kay