Ren Allen

"I want to keep them happy so that they don't try to
> force
> me to send her to school."

Homeschooling makes the schools very unhappy, so you might as well
forget unschooling if this is your priority.
I hope your priority is that little girl, not some government entity
that doesn't give a hoot about you or how healthy your child is.

Unschooling isn't something you do to keep ANYONE else happy, other
than your children. They need to be the priority, their thoughts,
feelings, needs and desires matter more than what anyone else thinks
about school vs. homeschool.

If you want to appease the schools, you're just bringing a lot of
potential misery into your life and inviting someone to control
aspects of your life that they have no business controlling.
Take control of your families choices now. The school need not be
part of your life any longer.

Ren