Natalie Picone-Louro
It sounds like you handled the situation with compassion and love. And even though he was screaming let me go, putting your hands on him anyway wasn't holding the intention of invasion. You were taking him to a safer place and space where he can let it all out. Being with family is so tricky. My parents and siblings would not have been looking at my child lovingly and with compassion if my child were screaming, they would be uncomfortable and(this has happened) they would be looking with judgement(their stuff) and i would be feeling their judgement(my stuff, which would affect the way i parent in front of them) So I would need to take my child out of the space so I wouldn't feel and my child wouldn't feel that kind of energy. It also wouldn't be fair to ask everyone else at the table to endure the sounds of screaming. This way my child was respected, my family was respected and taking a breath for myself and helping my child while not in front of
everyone is self care. Everyone needs are acknowledged.Natalie
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"You know you are face-to-face with the unfinished business of your own childhood when you respond with strong negative feelings to your child's behavior." (Hendrix and Hunt, 1997)
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everyone is self care. Everyone needs are acknowledged.Natalie
Visit our blog:
http://twodancingpepitas.blogspot.com/
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is
that we are powerful beyond measure." Marianne Williamson
"There is no single effort more radical in its potential for saving the world than a transformation of the way we raise our children." Marianne Williamson
"You know you are face-to-face with the unfinished business of your own childhood when you respond with strong negative feelings to your child's behavior." (Hendrix and Hunt, 1997)
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