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by Mary Gold What could be more playful than Peter Pan? This well-loved musical theater production was sure to be a big hit with my daughter and her friend. Flying pixies, lost boys, pirates, silliness, songs and fun: this was going to be a day for delight. We set off in great anticipation, leaving thoughts of learning and homeschooling behind. We started off with lunch, whisked off to the production, and stayed after to meet the actors for some Q&A. We were after entertainment, and that is what we got. But a funny thing happened on the way to the forum (another fine musical, by the way). We experienced something else in the bargain. It is something that our children understand instinctively, but we parents sometimes have a hard time seeing. It is something that is available in any fun day. We experienced a day of natural learning. It was just as meaningful and productive as any day we may have scheduled as "educational," even more so in fact because it was all so natural. We heard new music and rich dialogue. We asked questions and found our answers. We were learning! In fact, there was so much new information flowing into our day that the girls and I were bubbling over with inspiration. Our discussions and enthusiasm lasted the long drive home and beyond. Just for fun (and to inform a friend new to homeschooling) I decided to come home and jot it all down. I thought it would be inspiring to see in print all the learning that takes place in a child’s fertile mind. As an exercise in my own unschooling awareness, I tried to put all we had experienced into the language of school. It is what we homeschoolers like to call educationese. So let's see, what exactly could a professional educator come up with as a syllabus for a day at the theater? Putting on my best bureaucratic curriculum-writin' hat, here is some of what I came up with.
English: Wow, what a day! Keep in mind that my daughter is only eight years old and her friend is just six. And yet there they were seeking out all sorts of new information. They were soaking it up like little sponges. Now if I had planned all this out beforehand, it would have been a pretty impressive syllabus for one afternoon. Apparently we covered an awful lot of "topics." In fact, if I had written it down beforehand, I would have doubted my ability to fit it all in. It is quite a little curriculum the girls built into their day. But I didn’t have to fit anything in. I simply let the day flow. I talked with the girls and answered their questions. I kept our pace slow to allow for observation. I acted silly and posed some thought provoking questions. I did what any parent would do with two bright, thoughtful, eager learners. If you have never attempted that convoluted language of the schools you might like to try it sometime. You will undoubtedly impress yourself with how much of what the schools work so hard to accomplish can be handled by two little girls in just one afternoon of play. Your syllabus will of course be different than theirs. That is the beauty of self-directed learning, it suits the learner not the teacher. But the learning will be there. It will be surrounded by joy, excitement and laughter. Because in the words of author James Barrie, "The most wasted day of all is that in which we have not laughed."
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